Have you ever cheated on your spouse?

@LovingIt (5396)
United States
November 28, 2006 1:47am CST
Are you male or female? Do you or did you still love your spouse at the time? If you cheated why? Are you still married to the spouse you cheated on? Do you regret the cheating? Are you still cheating? Given the chance will you cheat again? Please be honest. I sincerely want to know. I've been cheated on by spouses before. On the other hand I've been involved with married men before. I'm just wanting to understand the reasons people cheat.
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@_hope_ (3902)
• Australia
29 Nov 06
i have never cheated on my hubby i respect our relationship too much to even think about it as the past 26 yrs have been great and i hope all those to come are just as great
@LovingIt (5396)
• United States
29 Nov 06
That's wonderful! I congratulates you on 26 years of marriage as well. It seems rare to find marriages that last that long these days. I hope you have at least another 26 more years of happiness. :-)
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@_hope_ (3902)
• Australia
29 Nov 06
thank you so much i hope to at least achieve my parents they celebrate their 57 th this saturday
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@_hope_ (3902)
• Australia
29 Nov 06
thank you so much i hope to at least achieve my parents they celebrate their 57 th this saturday
• United States
29 Nov 06
NO, I can honestly say I've never cheated on nor will I ever cheat on my wife. I love her more than anything and I respect her greatly. I think anyone who cheats is seriously lacking any type of morals. If you love somoene or have even the slightest respect for them or yourself then I don't see how you could cheat. There is never a good reason to cheat NEVER, and all those that make excuses for it thats all it is. Just an excuse.
@LovingIt (5396)
• United States
29 Nov 06
That's great! :-)
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@LovingIt (5396)
• United States
29 Nov 06
Can I ask how long you've been married? It's really great to hear from guys who've never cheated. I honestly am starting to think that there are very few of you out there that do not.
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• United States
29 Nov 06
We've been married 2 yrs now and have been together a little over 3 yrs. Not sure if that makes a difference or not it could be 30 yrs and I'd still feel the same.
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@sherinek (3320)
• United States
29 Nov 06
I have never even tried. Also, I dont feel interested on other males anyway. (LOL). I dont know what it is. May be I am a more reserved person and never allow others to be more than friends with me. What ever it is I really dont want to change. Cos if I do, I'll be inviting only trouble.
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@LovingIt (5396)
• United States
1 Dec 06
I understand what you are saying. Personally I don't understand it. It seems like it would be such a big hassle anyway. I'm a one man woman myself.
@kids91911 (4363)
• United States
29 Nov 06
I am female nd I have never cheated on him and never will.
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@LovingIt (5396)
• United States
29 Nov 06
Thanks for your answer.
@ru88en (2997)
• Philippines
1 Dec 06
Only in my mind so far. No, actual actions yet.
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@LovingIt (5396)
• United States
1 Dec 06
I get the idea that you are considering it, though. Why would you do it? Do you you still love your spouse?
@LovingIt (5396)
• United States
3 Dec 06
Who have you cheated on in your mind?
@Marie2473 (8512)
• Sweden
29 Nov 06
Never cheated - but got cheated. it is a horrible feeling =(
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@LovingIt (5396)
• United States
29 Nov 06
I've been cheated on by two husnbands. I know what you mean. :-( Are you still together? Did he or does he claim he still loves you?
@infohome (1219)
• India
28 Nov 06
i am male. never cheated.
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@LovingIt (5396)
• United States
28 Nov 06
That's great. As many people as there are in MyLot, though, there are bound to be cheaters here. I'm hoping they will speak up!
• United States
28 Nov 06
aint married
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@LovingIt (5396)
• United States
28 Nov 06
Do you have a girlfriend or S.O.? If so have you ever cheated on them?
• Singapore
28 Nov 06
for me, never..
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@LovingIt (5396)
• United States
28 Nov 06
That's great. I'm hoping cheaters will speak up, though.