Tips to a succesful marriage? / myLot

Nairobi, Kenya

July 1, 2018 7:40pm CST

I am currently going through hard times with my marriage. Kindly, assist me with some tips to make my marriage work. I am not ready to let her go.

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Arnold Nangis

@ARN4567 (1061)

• Baguio, Philippines

2 Jul 18

Successful marriage? I know one thing and might help...first please put Christ as the center of your relationship...cause if Christ is present in your heart and soul there will be forgiveness, humbleness and understanding will obtain you peace, joy and love b/w the both of you...and you can read the Holy Bible if you have time...just a suggestion my friend and hey Welcome to myLot...

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PETER MUSEE

@pmusee (92)

• Nairobi, Kenya

2 Jul 18

Thanks so much Arnold. I am grateful. That suggestion is so much applicable as I can remember when we used to go to church together regularly, nothing of these sort happened. She stopped and now here we are in problems.

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Arnold Nangis

@ARN4567 (1061)

• Baguio, Philippines

2 Jul 18

@pmusee Oh I'm sorry to hear that, but don't give up, talk things out and be open to one another, and pray without ceasing...Goof luck...

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rakski

@rakski (126031)

• Philippines

2 Jul 18

Marriage is not a bed of roses. Marriage is uniting two different people together to be one . The two of you needs to work out your marriage. You need open communication with each other. You have to trust each other. You have to respect each other.

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PETER MUSEE

@pmusee (92)

• Nairobi, Kenya

2 Jul 18

Thanks so much Rakski for that information, but now the problem is that she is not ready for a talk she is even not sleeping our bed room. She is still so upset. I am just confused.

Hope

@1hopefulman (45120)

• Canada

3 Jul 18

What do you think is causing the problem?

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Hope

@1hopefulman (45120)

• Canada

3 Jul 18

@pmusee Once you know the problem, now you can work on the solution. Love is the key and the solution to every problem. How long have you been married? Do you have any children?

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PETER MUSEE

@pmusee (92)

• Nairobi, Kenya

3 Jul 18

She picked an argument with my mother the other day over a negative post she had posted on her social media over 'mother-in-law'. She posted a very negative post over 'her' mother-in-law, my mother. That's where the problem started.

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PETER MUSEE

@pmusee (92)

• Nairobi, Kenya

3 Jul 18

@1hopefulman We have been married for the last (3) years. No kid(s) yet.

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Lena Kovadlo

@lovebuglena (44721)

• Staten Island, New York

2 Jul 18

I am a newlywed but I think there has to be good communication and compromise to make it work. Plus, trust and honesty and being there for each other no matter what.

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Diane Diane

@babycats (72)

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2 Jul 18

Have kids, when love in marriage becomes less and less, having kids make marriage stick together, that if you two care about your kids.

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PETER MUSEE

@pmusee (92)

• Nairobi, Kenya

2 Jul 18

I hink now you have a big point. That is something i did not know. We do not have kid(s) yet, she had requested if we could start having in (2) years time. Or might that be a trick perhaps she is not ready for the marriage and that is why she did not want to give me a kid for the last (3) years we have been in the marriage? I am getting more scared.

Ankit Sarkar

@ankiit (13)

• India

2 Jul 18

Don't argue with the wife, remember she's always right!

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ultraman cosmos

@id_peace (14005)

• Singapore

3 Jul 18

Always make up after quarrel. Always find one thing to laugh at everyday.

Anna

@LadyDuck (472078)

• Switzerland

4 Jul 18

I have read that your mother is interfering with your marriage. A couple must stay alone to be happy. Mothers, or family members who want to stick their nose between a married couple always ruin the marriage.

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@saritflor (3914)

• Hungary

2 Jul 18

Hi there I'm not marriage, but I think that respecting and know how to listen next to knows to ask sorry when you have can make the marriage a lot more better.

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BANKIM

@banksim (5256)

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3 Jul 18

Counseling for both will be bettet

Tee

@Deajae72 (723)

• United States

4 Jul 18

I am a nurse aide. One day, I asked this very lovely couple who were in their 90s. They were sweethearts since high school, been married after they graduated. I asked them what is their secret to a long and happy married life? The wife responded " it's always 60-60. Why do 50-50 when you can do more?" She meant, if one fell short, the other one has extra to give.