Do what you told?

@JustBhem (70555)

Davao, Philippines

July 4, 2018 1:56pm CST

Sometimes I'm hardheaded. If the boyfriend reminds me to wear a mask, sometimes I am not doing it. Whenever I wear a mask for the longest hour, I feel suffocated so instead of wearing a mask all day. I'd rather stay in my room. There is also an instance that the boyfriend told me not to go somewhere. But I went to the mall to eat, roam around and stay there until it's evening. The boyfriend found out and he was mad at me. I should do what I was told. Sometimes I just can't help it not to betray him. Those reminders he has for me, some I don't like it. Like I need to take the medicine twice a day. Like I need to this and that. But I am not that hard enough not to understand him. It just so happen that those he doesn't want me to do is what I want to do.

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@Hannihar (130213)

• Israel

5 Jul 18

@JustBhem He is concerned for your health so wants you to take care of yourself and one is to wear the mask and another is if too much then stay home.

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@Hannihar (130213)

• Israel

6 Jul 18

@JustBhem So you will do the opposite of what he and others say to you. Do you act that way with the doctor to or do you follow his instructions?

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@JustBhem (70555)

• Davao, Philippines

6 Jul 18

@Hannihar Of course, the boyfriend is different from the Doctors prescription.

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@JustBhem (70555)

• Davao, Philippines

5 Jul 18

I know. But sometimes I'm hardheaded.

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@marguicha (224787)

• Chile

4 Jul 18

I had to wear a mask for a long time while I was in chemo. It was very important.

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@marguicha (224787)

• Chile

5 Jul 18

@JustBhem I used my masks even when I was out for a small walk

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@JustBhem (70555)

• Davao, Philippines

5 Jul 18

@marguicha I also wear a mask here at home sometimes.

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@JustBhem (70555)

• Davao, Philippines

5 Jul 18

Yeah, I wear a mask if I'm in the center for my Dialysis.

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@AKRao24 (27424)

• India

4 Jul 18

I agree that you would like to do the things as per your will! But it can prove very disastrous if you are listening him as these things mentioned above are very essential for you! Please don't neglect the things advised to you before it becomes too late! This I am telling from the experience what I faced in my life with one of the person with similar problem as you have! Thanks!

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@JustBhem (70555)

• Davao, Philippines

5 Jul 18

But I end up doing what was told me. Like, I have no choice. Also, if it's not concerning about my health, yeah. I misbehave sometimes.

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@AKRao24 (27424)

• India

5 Jul 18

@JustBhem , Please be careful and take care, after all it is the question of your health dear friend!

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@JustBhem (70555)

• Davao, Philippines

5 Jul 18

@AKRao24 Thanks. I will.

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@ScribbledAdNauseum (104628)

• United States

4 Jul 18

I understand that. I often want to do the opposite of whatever I've been told to do. Regardless of whether it is good for me or not.

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@ScribbledAdNauseum (104628)

• United States

5 Jul 18

@JustBhem Exactly! I feel as if it's a challenge to be defiant and do the opposite.

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@JustBhem (70555)

• Davao, Philippines

5 Jul 18

It's like a challenge for us, right?

@JustBhem (70555)

• Davao, Philippines

5 Jul 18

@ScribbledAdNauseum I feel that sometimes like I need to defy him. Lol.

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Louise Crisologo

@mlgen1037 (29886)

• Manila, Philippines

4 Jul 18

Hi Bhem. I am hard-headed sometimes. The more I am not told to do, the more I do.

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@JustBhem (70555)

• Davao, Philippines

5 Jul 18

Yeah, me too. It's like we challenge them. Lol

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@JustBhem (70555)

• Davao, Philippines

5 Jul 18

@mlgen1037 Yay. Exactly.

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Louise Crisologo

@mlgen1037 (29886)

• Manila, Philippines

5 Jul 18

@JustBhem True. But they cant do anything because they love us. haha

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@Jessabuma (31700)

• Baguio, Philippines

5 Jul 18

It means you are important to him and he loves you truly.. he is concerned about you.

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@JustBhem (70555)

• Davao, Philippines

5 Jul 18

I know. And I understand him.

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@JustBhem (70555)

• Davao, Philippines

5 Jul 18

@Jessabuma Thanks, Jessa.

@Jessabuma (31700)

• Baguio, Philippines

5 Jul 18

@JustBhem Stay happy and blessed.

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@cttolledo (5451)

• Legaspi, Philippines

5 Jul 18

Haha! Because living in an extraordinary setting is exciting! Haha!

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@JustBhem (70555)

• Davao, Philippines

5 Jul 18

It's a challenge too.

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@amadeo (111938)

• United States

4 Jul 18

there is a lot of things that I do not want to do.

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@JustBhem (70555)

• Davao, Philippines

5 Jul 18

Like what?

@rakski (130961)

• Philippines

4 Jul 18

He is just thinking about you and your welfare. Your immune system is not like those of healthy person. He knew that if you will get sick no one will take care of you so you better take care of yourself.

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@JustBhem (70555)

• Davao, Philippines

5 Jul 18

I know. But sometimes I feel like he is overprotective of me.

@sol_cee (38219)

• Philippines

5 Jul 18

Rebel Bhem. Hehe

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@JustBhem (70555)

• Davao, Philippines

5 Jul 18

Sometimes.

@ridingbet (66854)

• Philippines

5 Jul 18

he loves you dearly

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@JustBhem (70555)

• Davao, Philippines

5 Jul 18

I am lucky somehow.

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@Icydoll (36716)

• India

4 Jul 18

He cares for you dear cha..I can understand that ..try to make him clear that what you want to do.

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@JustBhem (70555)

• Davao, Philippines

5 Jul 18

I talk to him sometimes about that.

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