My wife is asking for a divorce, what should i do?

@pmusee (92)
Nairobi, Kenya
July 9, 2018 6:42am CST
For the guys who have been following my posts knows what I have been through. I have fighting for my hiccuped marriage hoping for the best but now my wife is asking for a divorce. What should I do?
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Your Highness Emperor Albert Whisker
@CaptAlbertWhisker (32695)
• Calgary, Alberta
9 Jul 18
Give her what she wants and find someone new. There are millions of fishes on the sea.
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PETER MUSEE
@pmusee (92)
• Nairobi, Kenya
9 Jul 18
I love her
Your Highness Emperor Albert Whisker
@CaptAlbertWhisker (32695)
• Calgary, Alberta
9 Jul 18
@pmusee There are women out there who will love you better and you will love more.
Hanni Harel
@Hannihar (130218)
• Israel
9 Jul 18
@pmusee I thought last you said she was not ready to talk. I guess that was he answer that she wants a divorce. Is it because of your mother or something else? Will she listen to you if you try to talk to her? I am sorry Peter. How long have you been married? Do you have kids?
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Hanni Harel
@Hannihar (130218)
• Israel
10 Jul 18
@pmusee Why does she want a divorce?
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PETER MUSEE
@pmusee (92)
• Nairobi, Kenya
9 Jul 18
I love her i don't her to go...Close to 3 years.......
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PETER MUSEE
@pmusee (92)
• Nairobi, Kenya
10 Jul 18
@Hannihar She hasn't been in good terms with my mother....and me too
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Porcospino
@Porcospino (31366)
• Denmark
9 Jul 18
First of all I think that you and your wife should discuss the situation. Have you asked her why she wants a divorce? I was wondering if she says that because of the things that happen between you and her or if it has something to do with the things that happened between her and your mother.
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PETER MUSEE
@pmusee (92)
• Nairobi, Kenya
9 Jul 18
She feels like we're all against her yet I have been on her side all through. I think she got a bad advice from somewhere.
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Porcospino
@Porcospino (31366)
• Denmark
9 Jul 18
@pmusee Maybe it hard for her to see things clearly right now. Do you think that someone gave her advice and told her that divorce would be the best option?
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PETER MUSEE
@pmusee (92)
• Nairobi, Kenya
9 Jul 18
@Porcospino Yeah, I think so.
NJ Chicaa
@NJChicaa (119647)
• United States
9 Jul 18
It is probably for the best. Your mother has been doing her best to sabotage the thing anyway.
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NJ Chicaa
@NJChicaa (119647)
• United States
10 Jul 18
@pmusee Then be a man, stand up to your mother and tell her to mind her own business, and fix your marriage.
PETER MUSEE
@pmusee (92)
• Nairobi, Kenya
10 Jul 18
It's not the best for me...
Frederick Espiritu
@simplfred (20641)
• Philippines
9 Jul 18
You must both talked to each other calmly. If she insist the divorce then, you know what to do my friend. If there's no love in one side then it's better to call it a day.
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Frederick Espiritu
@simplfred (20641)
• Philippines
10 Jul 18
@pmusee So true. Pray for it my friend. Ask for signs.
PETER MUSEE
@pmusee (92)
• Nairobi, Kenya
10 Jul 18
It's a hard decision to make...
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filia faith
@Fliafaith (763)
• Nairobi, Kenya
9 Jul 18
i don't know the whole story but, if its someone who is destroying your marriage then divorce is not the solution dear
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filia faith
@Fliafaith (763)
• Nairobi, Kenya
9 Jul 18
@pmusee Thats then maybe means she is somehow fed up with the disturbance, but what i believe is that when you love someone, you don't let go of them easily. so if she really loves you then she will try to reason with you
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PETER MUSEE
@pmusee (92)
• Nairobi, Kenya
10 Jul 18
@Fliafaith Sure! I hope so
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PETER MUSEE
@pmusee (92)
• Nairobi, Kenya
9 Jul 18
I think so...but she don't wanna talk over it...
Sanjeev
@sjvg1976 (41281)
• Delhi, India
10 Jul 18
You both need to discuss then decide what next to be done. The decisions we take in haste sometime make us repent in the future.
ultraman cosmos
@id_peace (14005)
• Singapore
9 Jul 18
I know. Let her go. If she is meant to be yours, she will come back to you. If not, get yourself a new wife.
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PETER MUSEE
@pmusee (92)
• Nairobi, Kenya
9 Jul 18
That's a hard decision to make right now...
filia faith
@Fliafaith (763)
• Nairobi, Kenya
9 Jul 18
i don't know the whole story but, if its someone who is destroying your marriage then divorce is not the solution dear
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