How I became so Lazy. My Life in a nutshell...

@Supportazy I am looking forward to it. Good luck and I wish your happiness..

@Jessabuma Thanks! I just think I have already went thru the boring/standard life and time to start doing something different or challenge typical mindset in the society. Haven't figure out what to do next yet, but sure will share it in the future.

@Ntan822 Thanks for sharing and being supportive! Wow you have an uneasy life and what a big family you have! I am glad that we are both the youngest. Do you think ADD truly exist? Can being active and easily distracted just a personality trait, rather than a disorder? Sure society likes to label to make sure everyone fit in. My son is very hyper active but he is only 4 and I just think that's the way he is. Sometime I think the education system is forcing students to become a mono-type so that the youngster can fit into another society system after they graduate so that people can go on with their boring lives. It doesn't really encourage creativity or provide actual practical living skill.

@Supportazy I agree for most part. I do think people are way too eager to label when it comes to disorders. Yea. Your kid is.. A kid! Everything is amazing and fun and possible. How wouldn't you be hyper? there is a huge different between ADD or ADHD (hyperactive). ADD in my opinion (and from my experience with it) is more emotional. Can develop anxiety and depression. Probably sit aside. Not much for friends... Pretty lonely overall. ADHD - this kid can be the king of the class. Doesn't mind attention and like the spotlight. Can't sit for a sec and need small class to focus and will be helpful if have 1v1 with a private teacher. Obviously different people - different experiences. When this behavior goes on to teenage and you see it's really effecting on the kid I think it's needed to be treated. How? Well.. You can take him to a psychologist, have him checked with all kinda tests and a psychiatrist for medication. What is best? To be honest.. I can't say for sure. And I did all of that. I went to the psychologist when i was about 11to12. Was helpful. Made me more understanding of myself and why I felt as I felt. I also took all kinda medications. Ritalin was really bad for me and made me depressed. Then I tried some more but I can't tell if I felt any change... I wouldn't give my kids any medication of this kind. I think when a kid feel he is different then other kids and he just "doesn't get them" and can't socialize then he needs help. He need to understand that's OK that he is different and keep the way he is. Don't depressed yourself! When hell get older he'll know when to slow down . Oh wow... Didn't realized I wrote so much Sorry.. Hope it'll make sense.

@Ntan822 thanks for sharing! It is very helpful. Sorry to hear what you went thru. Have you seen the netflix movie, Take Your Pill? It talks about the over prescription and side effects of Ritalin.

@Supportazy Thats good. Balanced life is always the best one.

Thanks very much! I tried my best to live in balance.

Thanks. I think I used all my energy in the early life, now is at a break period which being lazy and searching for next goal.

@august18 Thanks very much! Hope it doesn't stop there.

I can tell you are hard working person by your profile picture.

@Supportazy no my friend i am normal working person