When in a relationship how does one know they are not being cheated on?

United States Minor Outlying Islands
July 17, 2018 3:42pm CST
You know how one would be in a long relationship for a long time and somehow you feel as if your love is slowly dying between each other because of so many problems that are stressing you both out. But you keep on trying but you don't know if you should give up or keep going. Also deep down in your gut you feel like something else is going on. What should one do keep going or try to fix it?
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@1hopefulman (45120)
• Canada
18 Jul 18
Unless it becomes obvious, it is hard to know. If things are not going to well, maybe that's a sign?
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@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
23 Jul 18
haaaa you are so correct in this one. some make it too obvious because that is the only way for them to let their partners know im cheating on you so lets break up... others do hide it so well you won't even know!
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@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
24 Jul 18
@1hopefulman well if cheating happens, do not turn a blind eye. that is what i will advise to my friends. they will keep the relationship but eventually it will burn them out.
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@1hopefulman (45120)
• Canada
23 Jul 18
@chiyosan It seems that some know about the cheating but pretend that they don't know to keep the relationship intact. I could never do that!
@ank1989 (11)
20 Jul 18
By having an open discussion with your partner and also from the body-language of the person especially if he/she doesnt give you enough time or make excuses.
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@MALUSE (69373)
• Germany
17 Jul 18
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20 Jul 18
First try to address youe concern to your partner. Talk it over, in person, in private, seriously. And then from there you will feel, you will know if it is worth fixing or to end it and be happy.
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@Jessabuma (31700)
• Baguio, Philippines
18 Jul 18
Hello! Welcome to myLot. Enjoy your time here
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@dave121495 (1296)
• Philippines
18 Jul 18
you will probably feel that he is cold and also he also makes excuses you wanted to communicate with him.
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@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
23 Jul 18
Sometimes being in a very long relationship can be tiring as well especially if one already gave up or is just living each day one at a time with no hope for future or no plans to level up and make the relationship better. When the other started feeling that his or her partner seemed distant or is no longer interested, i think it is a sign that he (if not already cheating) is bored and might be easily be swayed by others.
@Icydoll (36717)
• India
17 Jul 18
Welcome to mylot my dear friend
• United States Minor Outlying Islands
17 Jul 18
Thank you so much. I am glad to be able to join in a social chat group that can help each other based on others advices and opinions.
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@Icydoll (36717)
• India
17 Jul 18
@diamondgirlll good to see you..just enjoy mylotting and see you around my dear friend
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• United States Minor Outlying Islands
17 Jul 18
@Icydoll yes and you too. I will most defiantly and alrighty then good talking to you.
19 Jul 18
If you don't see them on bed together, you're not being cheated on. Stop imagining nonsense and focus, I'd say.
@Loreli (17)
• United Arab Emirates
22 Jul 18
Keep calm, use your women intuition, talk when ready and decide with caution.