Misunderstanding
@babyann2004 (18)
July 17, 2018 10:01pm CST
Yesterday me and my husband have a little discussion about work. He don't understand me. He don't know what my point really was. I hate to argue with him. I just wanted him to realize what my point is. Is it really hard to understand and be understood with a guy that is 10 years older than me? God knows I love him so much and we've been married for 14 years. Hope he finally apprehend what i really mean. I just smile and pray that everything's gonna be alright.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
18 Jul 18
@babyann2004
I see. Because you mentioned about work.
I think most people or Family that is the sole problem. Do you have kids already?
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@babyann2004 (18)
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18 Jul 18
hi! basically its about financial, money issues. sorry if i dont mention it.
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@chicnthin (3031)
• Philippines
18 Jul 18
welcome! hope you will solve your arguments with your husband and hope he will understand your point. just keep on communicating
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@rakski (122016)
• Philippines
18 Jul 18
@babyann2004
That is usually the problems of married people. They said the reasons for break ups are indifferences of people. People did not realize that from the beginning, both of you are different.
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@babyann2004 (18)
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18 Jul 18
@rakski yes indifferences. but i hope he will realize that i love him eventhough we both have different outlook on life.
@alexjessi (1033)
• Hanoi, Vietnam
18 Jul 18
In all relationships, the arguments about a problem are obvious, 
if you do not argue in a relationship that proves you have not yet revealed your true self and seemingly strangers know each other!
The argument does not mean that you are wrong or the other is wrong, but because both do not have the same thoughts and do not understand each other, leading to disagreement on the other's opinion. 
Anyway in love, if both The two of you respect each other, will also gradually ignore this and then progress in life. 14 years is really a very beautiful figure 
#alexjessi
if you do not argue in a relationship that proves you have not yet revealed your true self and seemingly strangers know each other!
The argument does not mean that you are wrong or the other is wrong, but because both do not have the same thoughts and do not understand each other, leading to disagreement on the other's opinion.
Anyway in love, if both The two of you respect each other, will also gradually ignore this and then progress in life. 14 years is really a very beautiful figure
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@alexjessi (1033)
• Hanoi, Vietnam
18 Jul 18
@babyann2004 You're welcome! I just want to help you
#alexjessi
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@Friendlypink (3805)
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20 Jul 18
I don't really know why guys are so insensitive sometimes. Wink wink
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@simplfred (20641)
• Philippines
18 Jul 18
Hello, welcome to mylot... We have the same situation about the age gap, I am 10 years older to my wife. I hope you can talk over about your problem I know you've already stood a lot of test of time.
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@babyann2004 (18)
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18 Jul 18
yes we do frederick. i know this is just a test on how much we two love each other.thanks
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@simplfred (20641)
• Philippines
18 Jul 18
@babyann2004 Misunderstanding sometimes is really part of marriage life. My wife and I have a lot those but we see to it that before the night ended we make peace with each other. We clear things before we sleep.
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@babyann2004 (18)
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18 Jul 18
@simplfred we used to be like that. but now he really changed. I hope he realized what i really mean. he dont even invite me to eat. totally ignored me.
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My parents quarrel sometimes, but my dad is always the one to approach my mom since my mom is really stubborn
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18 Jul 18
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@responsiveme (22926)
• India
18 Jul 18
Each relationship is a personal issue...I wish you both understanding towards each other and a great future together
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@Jessabuma (31700)
• Baguio, Philippines
19 Jul 18
Misunderstanding is normal to couple. I am hoping that everything will be fine.
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@dave121495 (1296)
• Philippines
18 Jul 18
Just settle it with a good objective argument if you cannot fight it being subjective.
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