Is Our Action Enough?

@simplfred (20641)
Philippines
July 30, 2018 8:32am CST
“Truly even in silence, a lot has been said... It's the action that speaks... No more needed to be said...” My wife always tells me, I am not sweet, Though I know she knows, my hearts beat. I don’t like to shout it out, my love for her in the street, But I’ve shown my love for her whenever our lips meet. I don’t usually say "I love you" to her as a treat, But I always kiss her, from head to her feet… Is our action enough? Or do we have to say our Love in words sometimes?
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@toniganzon (72281)
• Philippines
30 Jul 18
Sometimes women need confirmation by hearing those words. Doesn't have to be all the time but it has to be said with all sincerity.
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@simplfred (20641)
• Philippines
30 Jul 18
I just tell her that occasionally but she want's me to tell her often which is hard for me. I find it corny to repeat those words again and again.
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@toniganzon (72281)
• Philippines
30 Jul 18
@simplfred I don't like to hear it often or even say it often too. I think without sincerity, it's just meaningless.
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@simplfred (20641)
• Philippines
30 Jul 18
@toniganzon Agreed.
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
31 Jul 18
for me, i still like to hear the words from my love one. actions can come later. also, actions can be deceived like words. it is in the woman's intuition to know if the man is honest and truthful or not.
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@ridingbet (66854)
• Philippines
31 Jul 18
@simplfred there is always something true to an intuition or instinct. if not past, maybe in the future.
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@simplfred (20641)
• Philippines
31 Jul 18
Is a woman's intuition always right? I think my wife drew a ghost sometimes, jealous of someone who is not there.
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@simplfred (20641)
• Philippines
31 Jul 18
@ridingbet Or maybe she's just the jealous type.
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@neelia_lyn (2003)
• Philippines
30 Jul 18
Yes, say it in words sometimes but show her more through actions always, Cook for her, do the laundry or dishes for her, buy her something - just little things you could do for her that show you love and care for her.
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@simplfred (20641)
• Philippines
30 Jul 18
Cook, laudry, dishes... Haha. Well, I do that sometimes.
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• Philippines
30 Jul 18
@simplfred Oh that's good! It's one way to show that "actions speak louder" hehe.
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@simplfred (20641)
• Philippines
30 Jul 18
@neelia_lyn As long as it is not everyday else my wifey is looking for a maid. Haha.
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@Missmwngi (12915)
• Nairobi, Kenya
31 Jul 18
They say actions speak louder that words but like her i would also love to hear it
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@simplfred (20641)
• Philippines
31 Jul 18
I only say it occasionally. I hate repeating words sometimes... Haha.
• India
30 Jul 18
Words are confirmations..
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• India
30 Jul 18
@simplfred Haha.. women need confirmation every single day..
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@simplfred (20641)
• Philippines
30 Jul 18
@anamika161088 That'll be definitely hard. Haha.
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@simplfred (20641)
• Philippines
30 Jul 18
I agree. But I've already confirmed everything in our marriage.
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• Jakarta, Indonesia
1 Aug 18
action is more able to speak than thousands of words
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@simplfred (20641)
• Philippines
1 Aug 18
Very true, that's my take also but woman like sweet words more than action sometimes.
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• Jakarta, Indonesia
1 Aug 18
@simplfred sometimes words also needed, but don't too much on it
• Philippines
31 Jul 18
Actions and words should convince her enough so do both of them.
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@simplfred (20641)
• Philippines
31 Jul 18
Yeah, I do them sometimes but I don't like to say I love three times a day. Haha.
@Icydoll (36717)
• India
30 Jul 18
There should be words also..it's pleasure to hear sweet words that filled with love
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@simplfred (20641)
• Philippines
30 Jul 18
I just say I love you to my wife during Valentines Day and her Birthday but she want's me to tell her like every day and I'm not that sweet.. Haha.
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@saritflor (3914)
• Hungary
30 Jul 18
actions speak stronger than words
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@simplfred (20641)
• Philippines
30 Jul 18
Yeah, that's for me also but sometimes it is not enough. Woman enjoy sweet words and promises.
@Rashnag (30592)
• Surat, India
31 Jul 18
Nice poetry. Sometimes it's good if said in words, it feels special.
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@simplfred (20641)
• Philippines
31 Jul 18
Thanks, Yeah, as I've observed sweet words really are special to a woman.
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