Married to a cheat.

Nigeria
July 31, 2018 2:26pm CST
There is nothing as frustrating as being married to a cheat.You automatically become the shadow of yourself.
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11 responses
Christina Ladanger
@Ladanger (14578)
• United States
31 Jul 18
I'm afraid of marriage. Getting attached to someone and getting heart is like one of the worst feelings ever
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Enigma
@reploid (1371)
• France
31 Jul 18
You can still get attached to someone even if you are not married I guess.
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Christina Ladanger
@Ladanger (14578)
• United States
31 Jul 18
@Evian547 what do you mean
Evian
@Evian547 (45)
• Nigeria
31 Jul 18
How? I don't get you.
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Muhamad Yasin
@muhamadyasin82 (656)
• Jakarta, Indonesia
1 Aug 18
When it is no longer a belief in marriage better just split up for good. Take your way
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Muhamad Yasin
@muhamadyasin82 (656)
• Jakarta, Indonesia
1 Aug 18
@Evian547 sometimes we are afraid, will things be better for us after separation? but all we have to ask is, would it be better to maintain a relationship that no longer trusts in it
Evian
@Evian547 (45)
• Nigeria
1 Aug 18
@muhamadyasin82 ,it's a very sensitive situation especially in this part of the world where you are encourage to endure and hope for a çhange
Evian
@Evian547 (45)
• Nigeria
1 Aug 18
That's the only option in this case, but most times we find it very hard to let go
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anamika
@anamika161088 (11866)
• India
1 Aug 18
I agree. It leaves scars for lifetime in form of bad memories
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Icydoll
@Icydoll (36717)
• India
31 Jul 18
Yes , nowadays its happening a lot.
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Evian
@Evian547 (45)
• Nigeria
31 Jul 18
It's so common that I'm beginning to be scared of marriage
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anamika
@anamika161088 (11866)
• India
1 Aug 18
@Evian547 It's genuine to feel scared as soon many cheat cases make headlines everyday
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Jessa Bumagat
@Jessabuma (31700)
• Baguio, Philippines
1 Aug 18
Yes that's very sad but true.
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ruth okemwa
@ruthokemwa (121)
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31 Jul 18
That's right, it's always very painful in deed when you try hard being loyal to someone and they don't appreciate.
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Evian
@Evian547 (45)
• Nigeria
31 Jul 18
It so common among men. They find it difficult to be faithful.
rsa101
@rsa101 (38166)
• Philippines
7 Aug 18
It is unfortunate that there are people who cannot commit to their relationship firmly as they should be. I think that when in that kind of a relationship one should get as far as possible to that person unless there is some signs that he/she wants to reform himself/herself.
Emerald
@chavezrmc (6095)
• Philippines
31 Jul 18
Just go on your life. It's not easy I know. After maybe him/her a chance and still comes back to the same person then you have to love yourself. Think a million times and decide.
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RedRed
@redtesha (1773)
• Indonesia
31 Jul 18
I cant have relationship with cheater - and marry them is worst dream ever. I hope it will never happen to me.
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Maria Sanchez
@Santosvb (346)
• Guyana
31 Jul 18
Marriage that was supposed to be a beautiful thing has been manipulated by pure evil, people have started doing it for the wrong reason and its so risky because you meet someone that seems so nice but at the end of the day you have to be careful because you cannot know someones true intention towards you
Maria Sanchez
@Santosvb (346)
• Guyana
1 Aug 18
@Evian547 knowing myself, i have unimaginably high standards, i would walk out but then it depends on the person and the situation in a sense to consider a second chance but after second chance, thats just it, that person obviously has no respect for you and thats when you protect yourself by choosing yourself
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Evian
@Evian547 (45)
• Nigeria
31 Jul 18
It's so unfortunate. But if you find yourself in such situation what will be your reaction.
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Annastacia
@stacy31 (157)
• Nairobi, Kenya
1 Aug 18
once you realize your partner is cheating, move out and move on. once a cheat always a cheat.
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