Changing for a partner's sake
By enyi ada
@Berrygal (5834)
August 2, 2018 9:49am CST
I see people in relationship and maybe marriage striving to just be the way a partner want them to be, some will say you're too fat hit the gym,a woman will tell her man to walk and talk like one of her Hollywood favourite actor,another will be urging his partner to grow beards another is seeking for a muscular man and is telling his man to do some cardios..This can be tiring but people succumb and some don't. Will you change to pleased your partner or you will just want to be you? Which is your person?
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@anamika161088 (11866)
• India
2 Aug 18
Real love does not demand any change. But in love you are ready to make impossible changes as well just to please the other one.
Both things are contrary to each other but both are cent percent true and fact
@anamika161088 (11866)
• India
2 Aug 18
@Berrygal No. I am not saying it. I am just saying that both are the sides of same coin called love. It depends on a person which he/she chooses.
For instance, a person loves her partner just the way he is but not like some habits may be like keeping floor untidy or maybe eating habits. It doesn't mean that there is less love or the person need to change his habit to please his partner. It's the habit which is not liked, not the person.
I think habits may or con be changed but if it's changing a person as a whole than it surely is no love left. It's just the person is being compared with some other
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@miss_taken (155)
• Philippines
3 Aug 18
I don’t have any problems making changes. Just as long as it pleases me as much as it pleases my partner. As long as it’s for improvement and not just a mere change being demanded for me to be liked. As long as it is not a reason for me to hate myself. And as long as it is not made a qualifying condition for someone to stay.
:)
