Revive Your Relationship

Photographer: Wendy Spickerman
United States
August 5, 2018 8:52am CST
After a while, you may have noticed your relationship seems to have fizzled. You may even be secretly wondering what you did wrong, why the lack of interest, where the sparks went! It's natural for two people to settle into their relationship and even after years of being together, have these feelings. That doesn't mean you love each other any less. Ask yourself, "How much effort you've put into your relationship lately?" When two people first start dating they're always looking for ways to see each other, do something together. Sometimes relationships can burnout simpling because the chase has stopped, you've committed to the relationship, and feel you no longer have to try to spark that person's interest in YOU! But relationships are just like everything else in life. Would you wear the same clothes 365 days a year or eat the same meal every night? Would you like to stay at your job doing the job you were first hired to do, never advancing? Of course not! So today, I've put a few things together to help you or maybe someone you know revive your relationship. Revive Your Relationship Have a beach day together, just the two of you! Walk on the sand, jump into the ocean, bring a book, enjoy the view. Go to a local event! I love showing support for my community by going to events and who better to go with than the one you love. Put some sex back into your sex life. Why not ask your partner what sexual position they'd enjoy trying. Pick ONE.. remember you have a lifetime to keep going. I did say REVIVE not EXHAUST! Have you ever camped out in your own backyard and fell asleep looking at the stars? If you have that's okay. Has it been a while if so, do it again. Why not recreate your favorite date. Have fun at a sporting event or try a new drink at your go too diner. If you've enjoyed this piece be sure to let me know and I'll post another relationship piece in the near future. No one ever said you had to stop falling in love and I'm sharing my own personal tips for a happier, healthier, relationship. #ichooselove
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5 Aug 18
Its such a nice post have learnt much.
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• United States
25 Sep 18
I'm glad you liked it, Ruth.
@moffittjc (121659)
• Gainesville, Florida
23 Sep 18
That's great advice Wendy! I always try to treat each day like it's the first day of my relationship with my gf! It keeps me on my toes and keeps me feeling young. It also keeps her guessing as to what fun or romantic things I'm going to spring on her each day.
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@sw8sincere (5204)
• Philippines
5 Aug 18
This is an awesome post my friend thanks for sharing this.
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@Fliafaith (763)
• Nairobi, Kenya
5 Aug 18
This is really nice
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