Pregnancy

Nairobi, Kenya
August 8, 2018 2:08pm CST
My friend is 7 months pregnant and am scared on her behalf She says that she can't wait to hold her baby in her arms, but o made a mistake, I watched clips on how woman deliver and I went to tell her. Now she has some mixed feelings on delivering, which is the best way? Would you prefer C. S or normal?
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
8 Aug 18
I had both my children normal and yes it is a lot of pain but so worth it to hold you little one. There is nothing for her to be scared up. It is one of the best things and it is a pain that you forget about quickly.
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@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
8 Aug 18
That is the best gift you have as a mother to have which all the males they miss, including me! Thanks!
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• Nairobi, Kenya
15 Aug 18
woow thats so beautiful, i will try to talk to her and tell her what you've shared here
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@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
15 Aug 18
@Fliafaith , I will be more than happy !
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• Austin, Texas
9 Aug 18
I've been blessed. With the help of God (and a little help from my husband ) I brought 11 children into this world. Natural births. Do it the natural way unless there are complications and it's necessary to do it another way. If it was that bad I would not have gone through it 11 times.
• Austin, Texas
15 Aug 18
@Fliafaith - Strong? Yes. God gave me the strength. Some people say crazy. I am. But just a little bit.
• Nairobi, Kenya
18 Aug 18
@cmoneyspinner thats strength dear
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• Nairobi, Kenya
15 Aug 18
you are really strong my dear, am happy for you
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@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
8 Aug 18
Normal is always a better option as that is natural and helps in secretion of many hormones required after the delivery like secretion of milk for the kid, development of bonding with the new born etc, Thanks!
@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
18 Aug 18
@Fliafaith , You are mosr welcome dear friend!
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• Nairobi, Kenya
18 Aug 18
thank you, for the eye opener.
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• United States
8 Aug 18
She should be prepared both ways. Delivery depends on baby and mother whichever doctor recommends for the best :)
• Nairobi, Kenya
15 Aug 18
very true dear
• Peoria, Arizona
8 Aug 18
Normal is better, because it is something you can forget about quickly. C-sections you have to take care of a crying newborn who will cry so much while also having stitches, staples, glue whatever it is they will patch up the incision with and that sounds awful. My mom was mostly alone when she had to take care of me and she had a C-section and she said it was one of the worst things she had to deal with. But no matter what, she is bringing a new person in the world and both processes are very safe and obviously doable since there is a baby born almost every few minutes and it has been going on since the beginning of time. She isn't alone at all.
• Nairobi, Kenya
15 Aug 18
thank you for the advice i will let her know this dear, its very true she is not the first nor the last, she has to be strong
• Philippines
15 Aug 18
Doctors recommend normal delivery. I hope your friend will have safe delivery and a healthy baby.
• Nairobi, Kenya
18 Aug 18
i pray for that too, that she will be ok
@Ladanger (14578)
• United States
8 Aug 18
I prefer normal so that she doesn't have a scar on her stomach
• Nairobi, Kenya
15 Aug 18
very true
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