Sharing is good and healthy but not a comforter
@allknowing (136541)
India
August 8, 2018 9:02pm CST
Partners doing things together such as holidaying shopping, eating, watching tv, going for movies...........the works is indeed great. But for me Ihave always opted for a separate sheet to cover myself and sometimes wonder how a single sheet or comforter when shared will it not pose problems? The tossing and turning will disturb both.
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@JudyEv (340216)
• Rockingham, Australia
9 Aug 18
@allknowing If I'm awake and I feel Vince start to turn over, I grab a big handful of blanket and hang on. 
Sometimes he pulls the blankets with him but never right off me.
Sometimes he pulls the blankets with him but never right off me.3 people like this
@allknowing (136541)
• India
9 Aug 18
What difference would it be if you two had separate covers?
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@LadyDuck (471421)
• Switzerland
9 Aug 18
@allknowing In summer he can have the entire cover. In winter I grab the corner of the blanket and I hang on.
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@toniganzon (72281)
• Philippines
9 Aug 18
I like being under the same sheets with someone I love when sleeping. I don't mind the tossing and turning at all.
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@allknowing (136541)
• India
9 Aug 18
Don't you wake up when there is tossing and turning from the significant other (lol)?
@allknowing (136541)
• India
9 Aug 18
@toniganzon When one is fast asleep I wonder if one feels that hug (lol)
@toniganzon (72281)
• Philippines
9 Aug 18
@allknowing Sometimes but the person I sleep with don't move a lot. And I'm not that sensitive. I like being hugged and I like the warmth of the body next to mine.
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@Mavic123456 (21893)
• Thailand
9 Aug 18
i don't mind sharing, but in general I don't like blanket on me. It suffocates me.
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@Mavic123456 (21893)
• Thailand
9 Aug 18
@allknowing lol... you can take mine, I don't use at all, if it is very cold, I will be wearing pajamas.
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@allknowing (136541)
• India
9 Aug 18
How many so you take with you and what about at home?
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@arunima25 (87806)
• Bangalore, India
9 Aug 18
We start with one comforter and sometimes it is fine till morning. But there are days, I bend down in middle of night to pull a separate one for myself from my bed's drawer.
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@allknowing (136541)
• India
9 Aug 18
Bangalore is a place I am sure you will need more but if either of you have the habit of doing trapeze acts in bed then I wonder how comfortable you will be (lol)
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@arunima25 (87806)
• Bangalore, India
9 Aug 18
@allknowing Luckily we both are sound sleeper and we are not in to trapeze acts. But some days, he gets restless and is constantly turning and tossing. Those are the days, I go for a separate one.
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@allknowing (136541)
• India
9 Aug 18
@arunima25 It is good that you do that I would not trade my sleep for anything in the world (lol)
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@rsa101 (38166)
• Philippines
11 Aug 18
Well now that I am married its okay for us to share in a single comforter. We got used to each othet and it does not bother us anymore when we move. But if I was single I would prefer single individual sheets and wouldn’t want to share mine of course.
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@allknowing (136541)
• India
11 Aug 18
Tossing and turning that disturbs one's sleep it does not matter who does it (lol)
@cacay1 (83505)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
9 Aug 18
That would be nice to have a separate sheet to cover yourself to personalize it anytime
@sw8sincere (5204)
• Philippines
9 Aug 18
i love having a comforter of my own and not to share it with anybody =)
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@allknowing (136541)
• India
9 Aug 18
Each of us need our space and sleeping with no one disturbing is one such space.
@yoalldudes (35037)
• Philippines
9 Aug 18
Me and my partner are planning on separate bedrooms so each can have his/her own space. I will see how it works out.
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@allknowing (136541)
• India
9 Aug 18
I would not recommend separate beds but surely separate comforters (lol)
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