MOVING ON

Philippines
November 28, 2006 5:34am CST
How do you move on after making a big mistake?
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8 responses
@Khangura (924)
• Canada
29 Nov 06
What my parents call "mistakes"--my brief stay in law school, my aborted career in politics, my divorce, my abandoned sales career--have led me to a new understanding of myself and the world. If I hadn't left law school, I wouldn't have gone into politics. If I hadn't left politics, I wouldn't have met my former husband. If I hadn't gotten divorced, I wouldn't have found my sales job. If it weren't for my sales job, I wouldn't have launched my new movie production company. I've taken the scenic route through my 20s, and what I've seen along the way has been well worth the pain. The only real mistake is not believing in yourself enough to walk away from jobs and relationships that no longer fit you.
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@jricbt (1454)
• Brazil
29 Nov 06
Wow, I donĀ“t even know what to write, specially about the line The only real mistake is not believing in yourself enough to walk away from jobs and relationships that no longer fit you. It took me seven years to do that, and I am still recovering in a sort of way. Accept my congratulations on your point of view.
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• Philippines
29 Nov 06
Wow from me too! What a revelation. I think from what you've said things happen for a reason. It might not be on accordance with you but still they lead on to more rewarding path. Next time I came across a crossroad in my life, i'll look for an oppurtunity and not the down side.
@misskatonic (3723)
• United States
29 Nov 06
I distract myself from it, essentially. I throw myself into something that occupies my mind and my time. It works for me, most of the time.
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• Philippines
29 Nov 06
Good for you. But won't it bother you again after a while?
@xtinelee (3371)
• Singapore
29 Nov 06
I let time move me on. :-) Slow.. but steady.
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@urzicutza (1971)
• Romania
28 Nov 06
well i learn from it and i try not to do it again
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• Philippines
29 Nov 06
I wish I can do the same with the not to do it again. Often times, I learn the hard way.
@DanHibiki (422)
• United States
28 Nov 06
The best thing to do is to take a short vacation for the next few days, leave your responsibilities behind, and just relax. Trust me, it works!
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• Philippines
29 Nov 06
Thanks!!! I'll keep this in mind.
@Bruto123 (131)
• Brazil
28 Nov 06
Sometimes u feel like u want to go back in time..u want to kill urself...then u go walking arround..but try to forget it and dont do again..these stuff i said wont get you anywhere,just try to forget and say that you are sorry..saying this is a big thing....
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@123456_ (1052)
• Philippines
29 Nov 06
broken hart - being broken harted is always a big mistake for me. everytime i was able to realize that i lack somethin or i may have given too much.it may not necessarily mean i was abused by the other person..it only means we are not meant to be together.
most of the time i tend to make big mistakes when it comes to hart deals..on each hart breaks i ask god to give me strength to carry on. by merely telling my self its over i need to be strong...there i start frm moving on
• Philippines
2 Dec 06
i try to accept all the mistakes that i had done and try to make it up for it. for instance, i had lived in with my girlfriend and now we have two child, life had become more harder and harder. i can see the pain and hardship in my mother's eye and the frustration from my father's eye. all i can do for now is to work hard for my family and for my parents. i can not turn back time and re arrange my past but i can do much better now in my life for my 2 son and for my self.