Can you directly say NO?
By Debashri Das
@deba12 (2946)
India
August 16, 2018 3:50am CST
I am very polite and don't have the courage to say No on face of others. Because of this attitude, I have to suffer a lot. Now, day by day, I am practicing to say No, if the work doesn't interest me.
Actually, I don't want to hurt others. That's why, I prefer to do what others are saying me (of course, that has to be legal). What about you? Are you of my type?
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6 responses
@arunima25 (87806)
• Bangalore, India
16 Aug 18
I was like you and I have learnt it a hard way that saying NO is important for me to survive with my sanity and inner peace. With conscious effort I have improved a lot and I am happy. This is the best thing that I have learnt so far.
@arunima25 (87806)
• Bangalore, India
17 Aug 18
@deba12 When it becomes a need to survive, you learn to do it naturally. That's what happened with me.
@anamika161088 (11866)
• India
16 Aug 18
I used to be one like that. But now I know how important it is to say NO sometimes.
@anamika161088 (11866)
• India
17 Aug 18
@deba12 Yes. we cannot please others everytime. sometimes we need to please ourselves as well
@JohnRoberts (109846)
• Los Angeles, California
16 Aug 18
Learning to say no is a necessity in life.
