One of my brothers thinks I am ignoring him if I don't answer the phone.

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I do not walk around with a phone attached to my belt clip. It's a landline phone, not a wireless phone. I got 3 calls past 9 two nights ago and I was getting ready for bed and did not want to talk. My answering machine takes messages. I have got to the point I cringe when the telephone rings. Half of the calls are robocalls, solicitors and politico in nature calls. Then my younger brother calls me and we are not home at the time. So the answering machine picks up. He says "Hello, how are you today? " - (pause), "Well be that way. Ignore me. If that's what you want to do go right ahead. I called 3 times last night and you never answered." - so basically he is annoying at times. I can't answer the phone when I am not home. I will not answer the phone if I am not in the mood to carry on a conversation. It can be emotionally exhausting at times. The funny thing was, When my wife played it back earlier she knew he was ranting but didn't tell me. I was busy looking on line for alternators for the car and didn't know about the call. But I checked the answering machine and played the first part of the message - "Hello, how are you doing today?" - then deleted it. I had no idea he left me a 10 minute rant. Glad I DID DELETE IT after all. Have you ever dealt with a clingy brother like that? Someone who feels betrayed every time you don't pick up the phone? There are times I feel inclined to yank the phone line right out of the wall.