Cutting ties with a friend
By Phin2020
@Phinyf27 (82)
August 21, 2018 6:51am CST
A lot of people I've cut off from the past, I regretted the most. Some were for petty reasons and I thought why did I easily cut them off when I have also shared too much good memories with them. Now, I am afraid it will happen again but now I'm a bit hesitant to cut ties because I might regret it. I'm thinking of cutting the ties because ever got a long distance friendship that you only see once in a year? That's what we are like and there are many times this close friend of mine can't reply because he's busy etc. It just made me doubt the friendship. What makes you think of cutting off a friendship and why?
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@marguicha (222381)
• Chile
21 Aug 18
Once in a while, I discover that a person has nothing really in common with me. And then, if on top of it all, I discover that she she not behaved well towards me, I say it is time for a quick good bye forever.
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@proseprity68 (331)
• United States
21 Aug 18
I was cut off by a "supposed to be best friend" and a mom of batch mate of mine.
As for this supposed to be best friend. I think my mistake was, I shared with her my heartaches pertaining my supposed to be husband right now. One day, I saw she unfriended me in face book. When I asked her did she just unfriend me or did face book did that ? All she said was, I don't know.
As for the mother of my batch mate, I don't know what her problem was. She used to communicate with me too. She was already a family friend of this supposed to be husband of mine. She also knew and met the former wife of this supposed to be husband of mine.
Just like my former supposed to be best friend, I confided to her my heartaches about my supposed to be husband.
The fact of the matter is, my blood family is half a world away from me and my daughter right now and all I thought of and thought of trusting, were these two.
But, I was wrong.
These two women by the way are rich and happy as I see in their pictures in face book. Compared to me.
My mistake was, I think, when I told them about my heartaches, it made them feel that they are not my therapists and I need to get some professional help.
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@carolmill876 (45)
• United Kingdom
21 Aug 18
Ssometimes letting go of friendships that arent 'functional' is healthier than staying in it for the fear of 'What if'. If you do cut them off and they make an effort then its meant to be but if the other person mutually stays away then its for the best
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@Nickzter1331 (4229)
• Philippines
22 Aug 18
I will cut off a my friendship to a person who.didnt even trust you and even betray you... I was betrayed by my bestfriend, and ive known that that person didnt trust me all.along...