Have a Seat And a Coffee And Chat With Me
By Susan
@HazySue (39268)
Gouverneur, New York
August 21, 2018 9:30am CST
Now that we are both sitting and ready to talk I have something to say. My attitude first thing this morning was absolutely outrageously awful. I was determined to go through the day grumpy and unhappy.
But, it wasn't to be. A neighbor stopped by and I had to be polite and sweet. It just about killed me until she whipped out a small package and told me it was a just because gift.
Just because I am always nice, just because I am always helpful, just because I always lend a sympathetic ear. I was touched and my attitude immediately took an upward turn.
When I opened the gift I almost cried. She had found a print of a saying (the one above) and had picked it up for me.
I love it. It is something that I truly believe. A good attitude does allow you to have some control of your life. I have always believed that.
A good attitude helps you get through the good times and the bad. A good attitude helps you live a life full of joy and thankfulness rather that gloom and doom.
How could I have forgotten this? It is my mantra.
I will be hanging this special gift in my bedroom where I see it thing after I open my eyes. It will remind me how fortunate I am to have friends like this, love ones who love me, and it will also remind me how lucky I am to be still able to get up in the morning.
16 people like this
17 responses
@Courage7 (19633)
• United States
21 Aug 18
It is easy to forget that we must stay positive.
That was so very sweet and welcome by your friend to give you this Susan.
A good reminder.
Sometimes you may have a reason to be grumpy, I hope that reason subsides for you.
Thank you for sharing this with us.
4 people like this
@louievill (28851)
• Philippines
21 Aug 18
Amen to everything you said especially the special meesage, I would keep this in mind too, your neighbor was a real angel.
2 people like this
@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
21 Aug 18
God gave you the reminder you needed this morning and that's so awesome! I love when God uses people to help us or uses us to help others-it's amazing. =)
4 people like this
@GardenGerty (160491)
• United States
22 Aug 18
What a wonderful gift that arrived at just the right time.
1 person likes this
@caopaopao (12395)
• China
22 Aug 18
I'm glad you have a thoughtful neighbor. Attitude determines everything. You're right. It's good for us to be optimistic all the time.
1 person likes this
@Marilynda1225 (82589)
• United States
21 Aug 18
What a beautiful gift to receive on the perfect day when you needed it most
I'm a firm believer in a positive attitude even though occasionally I get up in the same frame of mind as you did
1 person likes this
@Marilynda1225 (82589)
• United States
21 Aug 18
@HazySue now you have a constant reminder
1 person likes this
@snowy22315 (179751)
• United States
22 Aug 18
How wonderful that was, to come just when you needed it most!
1 person likes this
@JESSY3236 (19865)
• United States
21 Aug 18
That's a sweet gift. Today I overslept and I didn't really want to get up this morning. I have been having allergies lately.
1 person likes this