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@HazySue (39268)
Gouverneur, New York
August 21, 2018 9:30am CST
Now that we are both sitting and ready to talk I have something to say. My attitude first thing this morning was absolutely outrageously awful. I was determined to go through the day grumpy and unhappy. But, it wasn't to be. A neighbor stopped by and I had to be polite and sweet. It just about killed me until she whipped out a small package and told me it was a just because gift. Just because I am always nice, just because I am always helpful, just because I always lend a sympathetic ear. I was touched and my attitude immediately took an upward turn. When I opened the gift I almost cried. She had found a print of a saying (the one above) and had picked it up for me. I love it. It is something that I truly believe. A good attitude does allow you to have some control of your life. I have always believed that. A good attitude helps you get through the good times and the bad. A good attitude helps you live a life full of joy and thankfulness rather that gloom and doom. How could I have forgotten this? It is my mantra. I will be hanging this special gift in my bedroom where I see it thing after I open my eyes. It will remind me how fortunate I am to have friends like this, love ones who love me, and it will also remind me how lucky I am to be still able to get up in the morning.
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@LadyDuck (471482)
• Switzerland
21 Aug 18
What a coincidence! You were grumpy and almost forgot your mantra and someone came to remind you. This is a beautiful gift.
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@HazySue (39268)
• Gouverneur, New York
21 Aug 18
I don't know how she knew I needed a reminder.
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@LadyDuck (471482)
• Switzerland
21 Aug 18
@HazySue She surely did not know, it's the fate.
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@Courage7 (19633)
• United States
21 Aug 18
It is easy to forget that we must stay positive. That was so very sweet and welcome by your friend to give you this Susan. A good reminder. Sometimes you may have a reason to be grumpy, I hope that reason subsides for you. Thank you for sharing this with us.
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@HazySue (39268)
• Gouverneur, New York
21 Aug 18
It really was. She is a sweetheart. My reason for grumpiness is something that will not go away. I am nearing the end of my life and there are so many things I want to do.
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@Courage7 (19633)
• United States
21 Aug 18
@HazySue Oh? Is it illness that is taking you Susan from those things and life? That would definitely be a cause for grumpiness. I can understand.
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@HazySue (39268)
• Gouverneur, New York
21 Aug 18
@Courage7 I have several chronic illnesses that are taking my strength and energy. I have been told that they will do their best to keep me comfortable.0
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@louievill (28851)
• Philippines
21 Aug 18
Amen to everything you said especially the special meesage, I would keep this in mind too, your neighbor was a real angel.
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@HazySue (39268)
• Gouverneur, New York
21 Aug 18
Wasn't she. This thoughtful gift came at exactly the right time.
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• Valdosta, Georgia
21 Aug 18
God gave you the reminder you needed this morning and that's so awesome! I love when God uses people to help us or uses us to help others-it's amazing. =)
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@HazySue (39268)
• Gouverneur, New York
21 Aug 18
It is amazing. My earth angel was here at just the right time.
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@sallypup (61172)
• Centralia, Washington
21 Aug 18
That's lovely.
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@HazySue (39268)
• Gouverneur, New York
21 Aug 18
It is one of the best gifts I have ever gotten.
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• United Kingdom
21 Aug 18
A little kindness goes a long way
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@HazySue (39268)
• Gouverneur, New York
21 Aug 18
It was such a surprise and so sweet of her.
@GardenGerty (160713)
• United States
22 Aug 18
What a wonderful gift that arrived at just the right time.
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@HazySue (39268)
• Gouverneur, New York
24 Aug 18
It is great that it came when it did. It changed my whole attitude.
@snowy22315 (180882)
• United States
22 Aug 18
How wonderful that was, to come just when you needed it most!
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@HazySue (39268)
• Gouverneur, New York
24 Aug 18
It is funny how that happened. I guess fate stepped in.
@caopaopao (12395)
• China
22 Aug 18
I'm glad you have a thoughtful neighbor. Attitude determines everything. You're right. It's good for us to be optimistic all the time.
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@HazySue (39268)
• Gouverneur, New York
24 Aug 18
I am one off the first ones to say that attitude is important. It was a wonderful thing she did for me.
@Juliaacv (51019)
• Canada
21 Aug 18
Isn't that special, your neighbour found today of all days to gift you this? That's special, and now I know that you'll have a wonderful day today.
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@Juliaacv (51019)
• Canada
21 Aug 18
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@HazySue (39268)
• Gouverneur, New York
21 Aug 18
I was so surprised. She had to have had a small whisper in her ear letting her know I needed a bit of help.
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• United States
21 Aug 18
What a beautiful gift to receive on the perfect day when you needed it most I'm a firm believer in a positive attitude even though occasionally I get up in the same frame of mind as you did
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• United States
21 Aug 18
@HazySue now you have a constant reminder
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@HazySue (39268)
• Gouverneur, New York
21 Aug 18
I also am a firm believe in the fact that attitude is everything. With having been so medically challenged lately I seemed to have forgotten it.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
22 Aug 18
Is in it a coincidence? Like you feel bad then this message came to you. It happens to me when I feel so down and stressful when someone knocking in our door and reminds me that I am still grateful because I am still alive.
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@HazySue (39268)
• Gouverneur, New York
24 Aug 18
I wondered if it was a coincidence. I think surrounding yourself with positive people helps. Sometimes they seem to sense these thing.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
24 Aug 18
@HazySue Yeah. I agree with you.
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@YrNemo (20255)
22 Aug 18
Your post encourages me to be hopeful for a better future even if we saw only gloomy (and boring) things ahead. With that in mind, I think I should go back to ebay, searching for pretty things to buy (I love shopping there!!!).
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@HazySue (39268)
• Gouverneur, New York
24 Aug 18
I love ebay there are so many interesting things there. I am glad it gives you hope for the future. That quote really pepped me up.
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@YrNemo (20255)
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22 Aug 18
Yes am ready to chat
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@HazySue (39268)
• Gouverneur, New York
24 Aug 18
So, what's happening in your world?
@JESSY3236 (19941)
• United States
21 Aug 18
That's a sweet gift. Today I overslept and I didn't really want to get up this morning. I have been having allergies lately.
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@HazySue (39268)
• Gouverneur, New York
21 Aug 18
Allergies are bad this this time of year. Hope you feel better quickly.
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@Sojourn (13837)
• India
21 Aug 18
I find it hard to maintain a positive attitude when in problem....I need to learn it
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@HazySue (39268)
• Gouverneur, New York
21 Aug 18
I am usually ok but once in a great while things seem to weigh down on me.
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