SORRY

@ZedSmart (19787)
Philippines
August 23, 2018 4:10am CST
A word that is easy or difficult for us to utter. When someone apologize, whether it is genuine or fake I think we must accept it. It is just difficult to restore the trust that once broken and it takes time or never—especially if it really hurts and cause us trouble.
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• India
23 Aug 18
Right. Once hurt or cheated by someone, it difficult to trust that person again
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@ZedSmart (19787)
• Philippines
23 Aug 18
And only time can tell if the full trust was restored.
@LadyDuck (471482)
• Switzerland
23 Aug 18
I agree with @toniganzon. I cannot stand people who present fake apologies, only to show that they are good people and sorry for what they did.
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@toniganzon (72281)
• Philippines
24 Aug 18
And fake apologies always show. We, women can always tell when it's fake and when it's sincere. It always shows anyway. And we would also be fake if we accept that knowing full well the we are just fooling each other.
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@toniganzon (72281)
• Philippines
28 Aug 18
@LadyDuck Same feeling here.
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@LadyDuck (471482)
• Switzerland
24 Aug 18
@toniganzon I fully agree with you. I can immediately feel when it's fake and I would feel hypocrite accepting.
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@flpoolbum (2978)
• United States
23 Aug 18
@ZedSmart ~You are right, apologizing is very difficult for most people.
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@ZedSmart (19787)
• Philippines
23 Aug 18
And sometimes it is also difficult to accept the apology. Out of being civil, we accept the apology even if the pain that it cause us not yet subsided.
@shaggin (72146)
• United States
23 Aug 18
I always apologize sometimes when things aren't even my fault just to keep the peace.
@ZedSmart (19787)
• Philippines
24 Aug 18
I won't say sorry if it's not my fault.
@Sreekala (34312)
• India
23 Aug 18
How it will be if a we try to connect two broken ropes, it will be seen as odd. The same way broken trust can't be repaired or restored completely.
@Sreekala (34312)
• India
23 Aug 18
@ZedSmart I do not hesitate even a moment to apologize if I realize mistake is mine. However, after tolerating so much, some one's apology won't make any difference in me. It does not mean I can't accept apology. But there is a limit for anything.
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@ZedSmart (19787)
• Philippines
23 Aug 18
You are right. It would create gap.
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@toniganzon (72281)
• Philippines
23 Aug 18
Do we have to accept it all the time? I don't think so. Especially when the apology is a fake one. Because that kind of apology isn't an apology at all.
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@toniganzon (72281)
• Philippines
24 Aug 18
@ZedSmart You can always tell when someone isn't sincere in apologising unless you're blind or a fool.
@ZedSmart (19787)
• Philippines
23 Aug 18
How can we distinguish if the person's apology is genuine or fake? Out of being civil, I might accept the apology but will not give my full trust anymore. If I'd no longer give my full trust, can the people presume that I hadn't forgiven the person even if I accepted the apology? The situation and the extent of fault may not be the same.
@ZedSmart (19787)
• Philippines
24 Aug 18
@toniganzon There are just master on faking it. It seems the sincerest but part of acting to make believe the witnesses that they are truly repentant. This is not happening in the drama alone. Like for example when you brought the situation to "barangay" justice. You will made an amicable settlement there and they even make sorry in front of those people. Anyway, if you don't like amicable settlement, you can always elevate it to court.
23 Aug 18
Why you are saying a sorry