Am I crazy?
@uhhew_ (2)
August 28, 2018 2:46pm CST
My friend has a boyfriend, and they've you know... They're 16 and at our age I mean it's not uncommon for kids to... well... But every time I'm over at her house her boyfriend calls and all they ever talk about is sex. It bugs me and makes me very uncomfortable and it almost makes me want to go home. Last weekend I was over there and her parents went out so she invited him over and then they instantly went in another room and did it. I was so annoyed and upset. Idk am I just overreacting? Literally all my friends ever talk about is sex and how they want to be pounded and it's like??? can we just have a normal conversation?? can we watch this movie without bringing that up???? Ugh idk I'm just ranting but I can't be the only one that gets annoyed by stuff like that.
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@LadyDuck (471294)
• Switzerland
29 Aug 18
I fully agree with @asfarasiknow, they are showing off and they are too different, find better friends.
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@asfarasiknow (3340)
• Bournemouth, England
28 Aug 18
They're obviously showing off in front of you. Find other friends.
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@cupkitties (7421)
• United States
2 Sep 18
Give it about 6 months or less. They'll get bored with each other and maybe your friend will want an intelligent conversation. Meanwhile, find a more like-minded group to hang with
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@rsa101 (38148)
• Philippines
30 Aug 18
I can understand you on that especially if you have not been into their situation. I guess you just tell your friend that it makes you uncomfortable that you are there and seeing what they are doing. I think you just get away from the situation if they do come to that point. I guess your interest if different from them who are so engrossed about their partners.
@betlynfrnds (4069)
• United States
30 Aug 18
Whenever I've been let down or turned off by "friends", I'd completely cut all ties with them and find new friends.
It would never take long at all to forget the mess I left behind.
@kprofgames (3091)
• United States
29 Aug 18
I had a friend in high school like that. It was hard to hang out with her too. Maybe your time together should be outside her home. It sounds like she uses the house as play time and you just want to be with your friend.
@sweetashoney (3597)
• United States
28 Aug 18
I know this is coming from someone that is way older then you, if fact I'm old enough to be your grandmother. But with all that being said, yes, you have a right to be annoyed and fill uncomfortable. As a friend, she should have more respect for you then that! If it was me, I believe the next time she wanted to hang out at her house, I would either decline and give her the reason, or before I went over there I would let her know how I felt about it. Let her know if she does that while your there, you will get up and go home. If you stick to this, it wouldn't take long before she would stop, if your friendship means anything to her.
