Would you go with your friend, acquaintance or relative in a party or celebration that you are not invited?
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@ZedSmart (19786)
Philippines
September 1, 2018 6:18am CST
Attending birthday parties, wedding and other celebration are common to us. Depending on the occasion, if we are invited we’re always ready to accept or refuse the invitation. I refuse to attend when the schedule is contradicting with my other activities .
There are just instances that our friends, acquaintances or relatives want us to accompany them from their invitation even if you are not invited. In this case, I am reluctant to attend to such event. I feel shy to be there even if I know the person celebrating or having a party but did not invite me personally.
The more I never attend if I do not know the person celebrating, because I’m just a stranger there. This except maybe if it’s a public gathering and anybody is permitted to attend.
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@tammys85 (30135)
• Baltimore, Maryland
2 Sep 18
If the person is allowed to bring a guest, I may go if it's okay with everyone, but this depends on the person and event. I don't really care to attend events where I rarely know anyone because I'm shy.
Now, if I wasn't invited and it wasn't a "bring a guest" thing - no, I won't go.
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@tammys85 (30135)
• Baltimore, Maryland
4 Sep 18
@ZedSmart I guess some people feel those who are invited would feel comfortable bringing a guest. But if they'd prefer their invites to not bring a guest, I wouldn't tag along lol. Otherwise, for me it'd depend on who it is and how many people I may know at the party, but that's because I'm shy around people I don't know.
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@Mavic123456 (21893)
• Thailand
2 Sep 18
@ZedSmart If the person likes you to be there, she/he could have invited you personally.
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@amitkokiladitya (171927)
• Agra, India
1 Sep 18
Usually I avoid going. I never prefer being an uninvited guest
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@amitkokiladitya (171927)
• Agra, India
2 Sep 18
@ZedSmart very true. This is the reason why I never opt for this
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@arunima25 (87854)
• Bangalore, India
1 Sep 18
I don't go until I am personally invited.
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@ZedSmart (19786)
• Philippines
2 Sep 18
I believe too that it's proper if we are attending with the invitation. I remember one time that I was invited by my former workmate wedding. I already tell the person that I could not make to the ceremony because of the time constraint. The person told me that I should make at the reception. I was a bit late to arrive in the reception area and they're already starting their dinner. There was no usher in the entrance so I just walk in and I sensed that plenty of eyes were looking especially those who do not know me. So I laid my gift to the gift table and hold my invitation card, that's the only time the usher stood up and entertained me.
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@arunima25 (87854)
• Bangalore, India
3 Sep 18
@ZedSmart you are welcomed if you are invited.
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@freelancermariagrace (28690)
• Philippines
1 Sep 18
Likewise. I feel shy too. That is why I don't like attending a party/celebration that I am not personally invited to. I don't want to give them an impression that I am a gatecrasher or something.
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@chiyosan (30183)
• Philippines
1 Sep 18
i don't think i will go to a party if I am not invited by the one throwing the party themselves. if i am to go with a friend or a family member i think that would be just because i am a plus one and that meant it is quite necessary for my friend or partner or family member to be there.
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@marguicha (223874)
• Chile
1 Sep 18
I never go anywhere where I´m not invited, not even to my daughter´s house.
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