single mom

Singapore
September 10, 2006 8:59pm CST
some say, i should not use my heart again when a new guy come a long, i should use my mind now for the future of my son.but now im crazy inlove again and i feel both in my heart and mind that he is the right one for me, but my parents disagree with that because he doesnt have anything for now his not rich but i know he will do everything to be the best husband and father for my son.. you think im doing the right thing to give him a chance to prove that he can be the right guy for me? ist true what my parents says that i should not believe in his promises?
3 responses
@gutfeel (25)
• Thailand
11 Sep 06
i think you should think about it. first, you have to think of your son. sure, you deserve to be happy with someone else, btu don't let your son feel that you're taking him for granted. also, consider the advice your parents are giving, i'm sure they only want the best for you!
• United States
11 Sep 06
I would say that you should follow your heart. Have you two ever talked about moving in together? How long have you been together? I have a daughter and I hated men for a long time after my ex-husband. There was nobody good enough for my little girl. The main thing you need to think about is your son...how does he feel about this man you are with? This person must not only love you and want to take over the world for you but he must also feel the same about your son. Take it one day at a time and don't rush into it, you will make the wrong choices if you do. Good luck and God Bless!!!
• United States
11 Sep 06
has he done anythign before to make them not believe his promises? Is there anything he can gain from the relationship, besides you and your sons love?