single mom
By bhicoy
@bhicoy (3)
Singapore
September 10, 2006 9:11pm CST
some says that i should use my head and not my heart the next time that i will fall.. because of the tragedy that happens to my past lovelife, i now had a 2 year old son and of course im taking care of him on my own, and with my parents help. but now im beginning to fall again, in a not so rich guy, my parents was keep telling me that he will not be able to give me and my son a better future. but i know in my heart that he can love me more than i can, and thats important and of course i believe in him that he will do his best to earn for our future.. you think ist true what my parents says that i should not believe in promises? that i should choose a rich guy, that can support me and my son well?
4 responses
@JulietsMom777 (1182)
• United States
13 Oct 06
You choose the man you love not for riches. So what if he has money that doesn't mean that he will love you. Yes you do want someone who can take care of you and your son. I say follow your heart money isn't everything. I would rather be with someone who isn't rich but be with someone who can provide for my child and I also who loves my child and I unconditional. I hope I could be of some help.
@alibabes88 (514)
• United States
11 Sep 06
you cant choose who you love, love choose you... but you can choose to stay with the one you love...
You have to believe in your self, and look out for your son. do whats best not for you, but your little guy
@sherinek (3320)
• United States
13 Oct 06
I think love is so much better than wealth. Wealth you can earn but love is some thing just happens and you cannot get it by force. What if this rich person treats you and your son cruelly, hits both of you or a womanizer or God knows what. So be careful. I dont say that rich people are bad. There are a lot of very good and kind rich people also very bad poor people. Do what your heart tells you. Also be very careful and think it over and over again before taking a final decision. Anyway, you cannot demand fate, only pray that you will be ok this time. Good luck and my prayers are with you and your loving son.
@Lackingstyle (7509)
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13 Oct 06
I don’t think anyone can give a better example than oldbuddy up there personally, and I agree completely, you can’t choose who you love, but just because he is ‘poor’ and possibly will be a struggle to keep both of your heads above water, it doesn’t mean neither of you will learn to swim! Naturally be cautious, though don’t not do something out of fear.
