If I'm gone.

@JustBhem (70555)
Davao, Philippines
September 14, 2018 9:42pm CST
I know some people will say something nice and bad about me when I'm gone. My Mother and some of my relatives are talking about one of our neighbor who died last month. They talk about how rude and arrogant this person was when she was still young. This makes me think that if I'm gone, some people say something nice and there will also be some bad things about me. Even if you did nice to people, they will always have something to say to you. So be kind anyway. Anyway, I'm not feeling well today, maybe because I was too tired yesterday playing with the baby and dealing with my nephews. They are all here yesterday day too. And when they are together it's a riot. The house will be messy. Any good quotes to share?
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@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
15 Sep 18
I know your feelings! I don't bother what people will say about me or my acts so long I feel that I am doing good and that is for the benefit of atleast some one! We can't stop the people from talking...they will always have something or other to talk about others, as that is the way of passing time for them! I can understand that you must have had a hectic time yesterday with your nephews. You are looking tired, better take rest This is a nice quote I liked and posting for you!
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@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
15 Sep 18
@JustBhem , You are most welcome! have a graet day! Stay blessed!
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
15 Sep 18
Thank you so much. This is great. I make a copy of it. Thanks for sharing this.
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@Icydoll (36717)
• India
15 Sep 18
@AKRao24 that's a nice quote.
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@rakski (121913)
• Philippines
15 Sep 18
Rest for a while. Do not drain yourself of energy. Yes, whatever you do, good or bad, someone will say something good and bad. So do and say what you think is right.
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@rakski (121913)
• Philippines
15 Sep 18
@JustBhem yes, do what you think is best and right for you and the one that will make you happy. Because at the end of the day, it is your life and not theirs.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
15 Sep 18
@rakski Yes. As long as I am happy and feel comfortable driving my own life. Thanks.
@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
15 Sep 18
That is what I'm living right now. I do as what makes me feel better.
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@marguicha (222737)
• Chile
15 Sep 18
I have no quotes to share. But I just want to say that should you go before I do, I´ll miss you. You are a lovely person.
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@marguicha (222737)
• Chile
16 Sep 18
@JustBhem Then don´t
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
16 Sep 18
@marguicha I want to live more. That's for sure.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
16 Sep 18
Yay, that's too soon. Lol.
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@allknowing (135841)
• India
16 Sep 18
No one says anything to my face even now. So does it matter?
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@allknowing (135841)
• India
16 Sep 18
@JustBhem As you have rightly said in your post whatever one does there will always be people who praise and people who condemn. So just live your life and get satisfaction.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
16 Sep 18
@allknowing I will, thanks for this advice.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
16 Sep 18
That means you are a good person.
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@Ladanger (14578)
• United States
15 Sep 18
Man people will talk if you do good or bad because they have to much time on their hands lol.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
15 Sep 18
Yes, they have all the time to talk about something and their life is boring.
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@Ladanger (14578)
• United States
15 Sep 18
@JustBhem I agree
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@marlina (154131)
• Canada
15 Sep 18
No matter what we do, people will always say things.
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@theend (2777)
• Gifu, Japan
15 Sep 18
I know now that this is a good interactive person, when you come to the end will tell the good things to everyone.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
16 Sep 18
@theend Thanks.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
16 Sep 18
I hope someone will tell a good story about me.
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@theend (2777)
• Gifu, Japan
16 Sep 18
@JustBhem There is no other reason for me to slander you. when you do not harm me.
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@GardenGerty (160600)
• United States
16 Sep 18
Here is a quote by Eleanor Roosevelt "Great minds discuss ideas; average minds discuss events; small minds discuss people." You are right, though, people will talk, and some of it may not be so good. Keep your chin up, and give them something good to talk about.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
16 Sep 18
Thank you for sharing this quotes. I like it. I will do that.
@1hopefulman (45120)
• Canada
15 Sep 18
That's a nice picture! Is it a recent one? It is best to do what pleases God as what He will say about us is what really counts.
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@1hopefulman (45120)
• Canada
16 Sep 18
@JustBhem Life is not easy. I hope things work out for you.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
16 Sep 18
@1hopefulman Indeed. Thanks. And I will take my life easy on me.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
16 Sep 18
Nope. It was taken last year. I was okay with that body and now I am not.
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• Philippines
16 Sep 18
Who cares what they think. It's what GOD thinks that matters.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
16 Sep 18
Exactly.
@LeaPea2417 (37349)
• Toccoa, Georgia
16 Sep 18
I bet they will only say nice things about you. (and you look good in the photo).
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
16 Sep 18
Thanks, that was taken when my body is not changing.
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@Shiva49 (26659)
• Singapore
15 Sep 18
I always recall Shakespear's words: "The evil that men do lives after them; the good is oft interred with their bones". For me, doing good is a reward in itself and matters more than what others say. I am sure you have touched many lives positively - siva
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
16 Sep 18
Yes, and I will start again doing good for others.
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@YrNemo (20255)
15 Sep 18
Never say never,
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
16 Sep 18
Meaning?
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
16 Sep 18
@YrNemo Yeah. Ahahaha.
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@YrNemo (20255)
16 Sep 18
@JustBhem It is funny really, that quote, some people like to say, 'I will never do this or that' - so someone quoted, 'never say never' - The hilarious thing about it is, the person who says never to say never say never... makes any sense to you?
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@arunima25 (87764)
• Bangalore, India
15 Sep 18
I am only answerable to my own conscience. This is my mantra to live. People will talk regardless of... Have a good rest.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
16 Sep 18
Thanks, Arunima. I will start making a good deed to everyone.
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@arunima25 (87764)
• Bangalore, India
16 Sep 18
@JustBhem That's the way to go. You are precious and so take good care of yourself.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
16 Sep 18
@arunima25 Thanks.
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• Bloomfield, New Jersey
15 Sep 18
"Wake up and be awesome! EVERYDAY!" It is in our nature to talk about others. From experience if you do good and is a overall nice person, then people will always remember that. This is what I experience with the grandmother and grandfather.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
16 Sep 18
So I should start making good things to others then, right? Hmmm...
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@May2k8 (18346)
• Indonesia
15 Sep 18
Don't think too much about it, you seem to need to take rest and that doesn't bother me they want to say what to me if I gone.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
16 Sep 18
Yes, I need more rest. Thanks.
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@caopaopao (12395)
• China
15 Sep 18
If I leave the world, I don't care what people will say about me.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
16 Sep 18
Yes, I should live with that perception. Maybe it helps me to walk the other life.
@jstory07 (139467)
• Roseburg, Oregon
15 Sep 18
When I am gone I will not care what anyone says about me.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
15 Sep 18
I think you are right. That's because we don't have feelings for them anymore whether they will tell something good and bad about us.
@sol_cee (38219)
• Philippines
15 Sep 18
People will never forget how you make them feel and that’s beyond our control. We can never please everyone. So YOLO Bhem.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
16 Sep 18
How I wish I can do YOLO, Sol. All I can do is stay in one place and sit.
@tom_view (6451)
• Kolkata, India
15 Sep 18
nothing to share.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
16 Sep 18
Nothing to say. Thanks.
@peachpurple (13962)
• Malaysia
15 Sep 18
Humans are born gossipers
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
16 Sep 18
And I believe it's a human nature.