Jealous wife

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So my husband is new to his work , he's now working at a supermarket (1month and a half) his daily routine was waking up at 4 am. Then leaving the house at 5:30am.. then going home at (usually) 5pm when no O.T. then eat and sleep.. that's his daily routine. Never had a time to play with the kids. Sometimes, when the kids was trying to cuddle with him, (of course the kids are loud and noisy) he easily gets angry and seems irritable.. we never had a time to talk how his day was, or what happened to his day at work. So, I always tell the kids that maybe their dad was just tired .. but I noticed that it happens most of the time. And I felt like everything changed, between us. No sweetness. Very different from before.. He's not really into Facebook, so lately, I've been noticing that he is always checking / opening his account. (we only have one phone now, coz his phone is not working anymore) and upon checking his Facebook, I saw that he is searching for people's. He added a few people . maybe his Co workers.. I didn't mind coz I see it's all boys.. so yesterday he went home late, I asked why.. he said it's his co-workers bday, and treat them some food.. That night, out of curiosity, I checked some of the FB accounts of his recently added friends. And saw they uploaded photo of the birthday treat. There are 4 girls and 3 boys. Including my husband.. lots of photo. They just ate outside.. well, there's nothing wrong with the pictures.. Then I checked his recently searched on fb. And saw he is searching for a girl . Maybe he's guessing the name coz I saw like 5 tries.. till he got the right fb account.. and saw that he added it but the girl didn't accept the friend request yet.. so while we were watching TV I asked him who's that girl he tried to add on fb.. (a bit shocked on his face) .. and he said his coworker. so I didn't bother to ask any further. So today, he went to work. And reached home at 8 pm. (Usually he goes home at 5 pm) I asked if he takes an over time. And he said no, he said too traffic . And I started to talk and started to ask questions. Coz it's weird.. his duty was only 7-3 pm only. So meaning he stuck in the traffic for 5 hours ? So while im asking him, he started to get mad, and said he's tired and shutting me up. And I said " are u with your co-workers again?" And he said yes. They just ate out again. I ask with whom? And he said all boys.. okay so I shut up.. Out of curiosity again ! Lol I started to investigate on Facebook and saw a pic of them again eating out. One of his coworker uploaded it. HE LIED ! They are with 4 girls again! And on the picture he is beside the girl (the one he is trying to add on fb) So I talked to him about it and he said he only said that they were all boys so that I will stop talking .. and I started to ask him questions about the girl he added on fb.. he said she's just a friend. But upon checking the status of the friend request he sent, he cancelled? the friend request. Now, it got me thinking, WHY? But the girl added my husband on fb messenger and he accepted it. And upon checking the Facebook of the girl, its in public so I saw the content of her timeline, and some of her pictures was liked by my husband! Im angry coz ever since, he never liked or reacted to any photo I uploaded on my account. He never liked my posts or photos of the kids.. it got me thinking tonight ... Something is not right.. P.S . The girl is beautiful.. I feel so ugly now. And im really jealous.. Wife instinct ? Am I overreacting? for confronting him about this ? He said im childish and nothing to be jealous of.. but I don't know why im feeling like this. Thanks for reading, it's long sorry..