My Fiance has Canceled our Wedding
By mor
@stringer321 (5644)
Kiryat Ata, Israel
October 2, 2018 12:58pm CST
I need to tell you all that we decided to cancel our wedding, she decided to stay away from my family with all of the bad relationship between my parents, my family is divided into 2 parts: the parts that stands with my mom's side and the part that stands with my dad's side.
Ugly story, and she decided to leave it.
My parents story is very sad and none of my parents want to solve it.
My mom and dad got married almost 40 years ago, they didn't get along, she suffered him, she cheated on him a lot, he got angry, he needed her a lot, he developed panic attacks, he needs her on his side and no one else, that's impossible. He hates my mom, but, he needs her to be by his side when he gets a panic attack, they are divorced and she doesn't have to do that, even if the justice and common sense says she has to help him, she doesn't want to.
My affianced decided to keep a healthy head out of a sick bed.
She gave me the engagement ring back...there goes a relationship...
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11 responses
@stringer321 (5644)
• Kiryat Ata, Israel
3 Oct 18
I understand her point of view. She comes from a traditional family. She didn't want to expose the children to such a family with such divorces.
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@stringer321 (5644)
• Kiryat Ata, Israel
5 Oct 18
@LadyDuck We all feel that. He always claims that she is the only one that can relief his panic attacks.
He wants my mom to be there for him where ever she may be, and she hangs out a lot. I don't know how he can live like that. He claims he cannot get to love any woman because he can't have trust in them because of what my mom did to him. We all don't get it.
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@LadyDuck (471459)
• Switzerland
3 Oct 18
@stringer321 I understand your sentiments toward your parents and your father, as a matter of fact they are ruining also your life.
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@LadyDuck (471459)
• Switzerland
4 Oct 18
@stringer321 Let me tell you my opinion. The panic attacks or your father are his way to oblige your mother to stay with him. He is not sick, but he wants to have your mother with him. You could seek the help of a psychologist.
@shaggin (72141)
• United States
16 Nov 18
@stringer321 If you didn't love her as much as you thought then it's good you didn't marry. I guess she made a good decision in the end even if it hurt at the time.
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@stringer321 (5644)
• Kiryat Ata, Israel
16 Nov 18
It is alright, I didn't love her too much and I can go on, focus on my studies, work, find a better woman. I'm happy now.
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@louievill (28851)
• Philippines
2 Oct 18
Sorry to hear that, guess there is no other recourse but to move on, she might not be worth your love anyway, I'm sure you will find a better woman who would love you as you are and not look at your dark family past or back ground, good luck.
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@stringer321 (5644)
• Kiryat Ata, Israel
4 Oct 18
The engagement ring she chose costed almost a full month of work from me.
I gave the ring back to the store. I'm waiting to the credit card company to message me that the deal was canceled. It's all right, nothing happened. No wedding, no children, I had no much love for her anyway, maybe a little...
@stringer321 (5644)
• Kiryat Ata, Israel
13 Oct 18
You are right, she was going to marry me and not with my family. Anyway, I found that she is very conservative. I think it came out for the better, maybe we have too different background.
@rsa101 (38166)
• Philippines
3 Oct 18
So sorry to hear that news. How do you feel right now? I guess that I guess its for the better that you decided to cancel if one would not understand your situation. I think you should marry the person who could love you despite the difficulties you have in your family.
@rsa101 (38166)
• Philippines
4 Oct 18
@stringer321 Not necessarily like that. I think you should find a woman who would understand everything about you and still love you in the end. I know there are many candidates out there that would be able to accept you for who you are.
@stringer321 (5644)
• Kiryat Ata, Israel
5 Oct 18
@rsa101 And my family for what they are :-|
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@stringer321 (5644)
• Kiryat Ata, Israel
3 Oct 18
Thanks, I will maybe need a woman with divorced parents. She will maybe understand my family situation. I wish my parents problems will never get into my life again.
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@1hopefulman (45120)
• Canada
4 Oct 18
That's very sad! I hope you find someone that loves you along with the baggage.
@stringer321 (5644)
• Kiryat Ata, Israel
3 Oct 18
It's all right, it is not the end of the world, I don't care too much now. I just wanted to get out of the house with my dad, start a family of my own. I will maybe do it in the future with a smarter woman.
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