why it is difficut to say i love u

i dont think that it is difficut to say i love u .

My hubby tells me that he love me all the time when he is at home with me. When he call me from his work, he get shy and wont say it. I make him say it but I always wonder why it so hard for him to tell me that on the phone.

being married is a lot more responsibility that might lead to busy life. bcoz of that they cant find time to say how they love their wives or appreciated them, or if they do have time they just find it irrelevant to utter such words as they pressume that their wives already knows it. or worst just dimple take their wives for granted.

Plz tell me how u shd say this to your wives... even i could not say this ever...

coz most of the people think that what would they do if the answer doesn't go in their favour.....eventhough i strongly oppose the idea...it's better to say ur heart out before it gets too late n u never get to know what's there in the other person's heart...coz u see it might b possible that the one u love is waiting 4 u to say the 3 words 1st...n since neither of u say it.....remember time n tide wide 4 none.......

I think people who have issues with openly expressing their feelings and their love for their spouse/loved ones are the people who weren't shown affection as they where growing up. If you show children affection openly and show them that it's ok to express your emotions, they will be more apt to be able to express their emotions as an adult. JMHO