My aging children make me an aged mom

my girls
@Inlemay (17713)
South Africa
October 14, 2018 3:42pm CST
“In my dreams, I never have an age.” ~ Madeleine L'Engle Tomorrow, the 15th October marks the BIRTHDAY of my eldest daughter who ventures into her mid-thirties with the energy of a teenager. HAPPY BIRTHDAY DEAR GIRL! I always remember every moment of the day she was born without fail, and the memories of her growing up remind me, I did her well. Now that she is married, she shares more and more of her special days with her hubby and their younger friends, and I find myself feeling very aged in this moment as I watch her grow up and move forward in life. Elton John states it quite clearly in his beautiful song "the circle of life" from the movie The Lion King: "From the day we arrive on the planet And blinking, step into the sun There's more to see than can ever be seen More to do than can ever be done It's the circle of life And it moves us all Through despair and hope Through faith and love Till we find our place On the path unwinding In the circle The circle of life . . . " Just beautiful Melancholy holds me prisoner as I face another 'child' loss in a few weeks time. Summer is almost upon us in SA, and the first rains fell yesterday nourishing the dry earth with the food from the heavens. We are blessed. PS: Thank you to everyone who offered advice on my previous post regarding onychoschizia, I have gotten myself some vitamin E cream to rub in every night, Biotin and Folic acid with a vitamin B complex and I shall keep you all updated on the hopeful progress.
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@JudyEv (338682)
• Rockingham, Australia
15 Oct 18
My Mum was in hospital after a hip replacement at 99. My brother and sister are twins. An orderly took her a ride in her wheelchair and they met a couple with brand new twins, Mum was very interested in the babies and said 'I have twins but mine are 70'. I hope I haven't told you this before.
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@Inlemay (17713)
• South Africa
15 Oct 18
you havent told me this before - wow, twins - my mom was one of a twin and we are hoping it throws back with one of my girls. imagine me being blessed with twin grandchildren
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@Inlemay (17713)
• South Africa
15 Oct 18
did you perhaps do this in a blog somewhere?
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@JudyEv (338682)
• Rockingham, Australia
15 Oct 18
@Inlemay No but I've written it in a comment somewhere. I'm at the age where I'm starting to repeat myself. :(
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@LadyDuck (470799)
• Switzerland
15 Oct 18
I wish to your daughter a very happy birthday. My niece has turned 33 last July, I cannot believe she is already an adult women and no more a young "pest".
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@LadyDuck (470799)
• Switzerland
15 Oct 18
@Inlemay This must be hard, not being a mother I cannot fully understand.
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@Inlemay (17713)
• South Africa
15 Oct 18
that is the reality I faced this yeat - her being married and not one of my little children anymore. She now shares her life with another.
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• Philippines
15 Oct 18
Happy birthday to your beautiful daughter! At first glance on the picture, you were just like siblings!
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@Inlemay (17713)
• South Africa
15 Oct 18
the tree on the photos are siblings
@amadeo (111938)
• United States
14 Oct 18
that is a lovely photo there.Nice looking family there.Happy Birthday to the older.
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@Inlemay (17713)
• South Africa
15 Oct 18
thank you - my daughters and one in the middle is my sons wife but we dont call her an in-law, she is my other daughter
@amadeo (111938)
• United States
15 Oct 18
@Inlemay thank you and good morning
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@sunrisefan (28524)
• Philippines
15 Oct 18
You should feel much, much younger if I tell you I'm now 95, Lany :)
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@Inlemay (17713)
• South Africa
15 Oct 18
you are a fantastic young age indeed - what a wonderful life you must have had already and plenty more to have
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@sunrisefan (28524)
• Philippines
15 Oct 18
@Inlemay Hehehe!
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@SophieY (891)
• South Africa
21 Oct 18
WOW congrats to the pretty lady - not sure which one it is
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@Inlemay (17713)
• South Africa
21 Oct 18
Right one
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@marlina (154131)
• Canada
14 Oct 18
Lovely picture, Happy Birthday to your oldest daughter.
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@Inlemay (17713)
• South Africa
15 Oct 18
thank you - its hers to enjoy in any which way she chooses
@moffittjc (121503)
• Gainesville, Florida
12 Nov 18
You have very beautiful daughters, and I have no doubt that they got their good looks from their mother!
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@TheHorse (217891)
• Walnut Creek, California
22 Nov 18
One of my favorite movies, adult or child.
@Morleyhunt (21744)
• Canada
15 Oct 18
My oldest will be 42 on Thursday. Where did the time go? Happy birthday to your firstborn.
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@Inlemay (17713)
• South Africa
15 Oct 18
where did the time go indeed! She is my second born but my eldest daughter - we may not call her 'middle' as she doesnt like that
@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
17 Oct 18
You are blessed to have children. Good luck with your vitamins.
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@NormanDarlo (1071)
• Ireland
17 Oct 18
Happy birthday to your grownup little girl, Lany. None of us is getting any younger, but I comfort myself, when my mood is low, by thinking about the fact that my children carry my genes, my blood, and so I am living through them. Although it is the natural order of things that our children make their own lives, that umbilical cord can be hard to let break.