Helping a Neighbor

@CarolDM (203422)
Nashville, Tennessee
October 19, 2018 10:56am CST
Got up early this morning. Doing my chores. I kept hearing the little dog barking next door. My neighbor is elderly and lost his wife in the spring to cancer. I try to listen out for him. His daughter lives closeby but I still find myself keeping an eye out for him. He is trying to be independent. He has a little dog that is his shadow. I kept hearing her bark. This happens but he usually tells her to be quiet after a few minutes. I got concerned after about an hour of hearing her bark. I walked to the fence and called out his name. I could barely him him answer. So off I went. He had fallen but seemed ok. I called his daughter. She quickly came and they are going to the doctor just in case. You just never know what might be happening with your neighbors. I am glad I paid attention to my gut instinct. And hopefully he will be fine. Do you have neighbors you keep an eye out for?
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@amadeo (111938)
• United States
19 Oct 18
the dog has fallen from where?
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@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
19 Oct 18
No.. the neighbor fell to the floor. Not sure where he was when he fell.
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@amadeo (111938)
• United States
19 Oct 18
@CarolDM I see thank you.
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@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
19 Oct 18
@amadeo You are welcome.
• Rupert, Idaho
19 Oct 18
That's good that you were there to keep an eye out for him and hopefully he will be okay! We live in an apartment complex of 24 apartments, so I guess we all keep an eye out for each other!
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@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
19 Oct 18
Yes, when I am outside I always listen out for him without being overprotective.
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@LadyDuck (472060)
• Switzerland
20 Oct 18
I keep an eye on my neighbors and they keep an eye on us.
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@LadyDuck (472060)
• Switzerland
21 Oct 18
@CarolDM I know, we are lucky here because this is a very small community.
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@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
21 Oct 18
@LadyDuck Yes and those communities are becoming hard to find these days.
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@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
20 Oct 18
That is how it should be but many times it is not.
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@andriaperry (117146)
• Anniston, Alabama
19 Oct 18
I used to but I moved. Once I found a neighbor had fell and she did break her hip, I called 911 from inside her house, her grandson was there but asleep. she made me ride to the hospital with her.
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@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
19 Oct 18
It is scary to find someone fallen. I think he will be fine.
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@Icydoll (36717)
• India
19 Oct 18
That's very nice of you I am sure he will be Okay
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@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
19 Oct 18
I think he will be fine, it was scary at first.
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• United States
19 Oct 18
thank goodness you were there!
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@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
19 Oct 18
I know, I am glad I heard his dog.
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@m_audrey6788 (58472)
• Germany
19 Oct 18
You`re such a nice neighbor. I don`t know if someone like you here
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@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
19 Oct 18
It is just my nature to help others. Thank you!
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• Germany
19 Oct 18
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@allknowing (137811)
• India
20 Oct 18
He is lucky to have a neighbour like you. More power to you. And the dog sure knew something was not OK
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@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
20 Oct 18
Thank you, I would do it every day if he needed me. Yes the little dog was a life saver.
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@wolfgirl569 (108197)
• Marion, Ohio
19 Oct 18
I lived next door to my Mom and Dad and kept a close eye on them. My dad fell a few times. It is scary when they fall after a certain age. Glad you paid attention to his doggy. She knew what she needed to do to get him help.
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@Courage7 (19633)
• United States
19 Oct 18
That is so great Carol that you look out for that man. He needs it and you had done such a good turn today. I am thankful he has you for a neighbor. I hope he is okay. That little dog helped too. Dogs are so good like that. Not looking out for anyone in this complex but really no need to, they should be looking out for me lol
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@Courage7 (19633)
• United States
19 Oct 18
@CarolDM Your friend would be proud..is she still around?
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@Courage7 (19633)
• United States
20 Oct 18
Yes I do recall now Carol. RIP @CarolDM So sorry.
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@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
19 Oct 18
I don't see how I could not do this. It is just my nature I guess and I think of my friend, she would be proud. Yes the dog alerted me.
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@Janet357 (75646)
20 Oct 18
Your neighbor would be very grateful with what you did.
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@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
20 Oct 18
Yes and I know my friend would be too. Thanks.
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• Philippines
20 Oct 18
He is blessed to have a neighbour like you, Carol. God bless your good heart! And I hope he’s okay.
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@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
20 Oct 18
Thank you Maria. His wife was a great friend. Still haven't heard if he is ok.
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@NormanDarlo (1071)
• Ireland
19 Oct 18
I am very glad you followed your instinct, Carol. You're a good neighbour. My neighbours are mostly younger and families.
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@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
19 Oct 18
I learned years ago to do that Norman and I just knew something wasn't right. I kept thinking of my friend, his wife, that passed and I had to intervene.
@glyzane (81)
20 Oct 18
As I am reading it, I can't help but think of your neighbor. It seems that my heart wanted to jump and help him too. It's so nice that you are there at that time. God used you as an instrument. God bless your heart.
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@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
21 Oct 18
He is fine now thankfully. I believe I was outside so I could hear his little dog.
@marlina (154130)
• Canada
19 Oct 18
Glad that you were attentive and could help him out. I hope that he will be okay.
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@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
19 Oct 18
Yes it made me feel good to help.
@teamfreak16 (43418)
• Denver, Colorado
2 Nov 18
That's good that you noticed it and were able to help. A lot of people wouldn't have even noticed.
@dya80dya (36769)
19 Oct 18
No. I don't have such neighbours.
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