Conflict with daughter...

Hello kabayan and welcome! Since this was opened by your daughter, maybe you should asked why did she think so and then maybe you both can make changes and have compromises. Time passed by with her thinking of this, maybe it is about time that you did not intended it that way. I hope the two of you will have better relationship.

I'm sorry you are hurting now, since the difficult confrontation from your daughter. About a year ago, our adult son (oldest child) had a similar discussion with my husband and me. He angrily told us about some resentments he'd been holding in for years. We listened and apologized and told him we still loved him the same too. I cried and lost sleep over it for awhile. But after a few months, he acted more loving to us and wanted to spend more time with us. His dad and I admitted that we did not handle everything right while raising our kids. I hope that your relationship with your children will get better after some time has passed.

Sometimes, children can feel neglected if it seems like you're favoring the other. I felt that way with how my mom used to treat my brother. We talked it out and now we're okay.