What have you just learned or realized
By enyi ada
@Berrygal (5834)
October 23, 2018 11:59pm CST
In my little life I love to always learn a lesson or two from what others have experienced. It gives wisdom to the head and good thought too. Just learned we should sometimes give a care to the tinniest of things that we think never matter now, it might matter tomorrow. So share your little or big lesson with me.
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@CountryGirl31 (1259)
• United States
24 Oct 18
I have learned that I tend to try to do too much for others. I try to help them when they need it and even try to mend relationships that are probably better off not being mended. It causes me alot of anxiety and the only thing I get repaid with is it being thrown back in my face.
My lesson for the week is to only help those who would willing help me should I need it and not to waste my time on those who don't appreciate it.
@CountryGirl31 (1259)
• United States
24 Oct 18
@septabchips Sometimes it takes trial and error. Other times you just know.
With a few of my family members, they have said if I needed anything, let them know. These are family members that are always asking me for help / borrowing money. Well, I asked them to give my uncle a ride home because I was an hour away for a training. They refused. Okay, lesson learned there. I stopped helping them.
If there are people asking you if there is anything you need, those are the ones you know would help you back. When you find those friends, do not let them go.
@septabchips (1141)
• Nigeria
24 Oct 18
But how can you know who would help you back in the first place?
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@septabchips (1141)
• Nigeria
24 Oct 18
You are not incorrect. In other words, we need to be sensitive even about little things because atimes those little things we overlook could mean a lot to some people.
