I quit

@GardenGerty (160998)
United States
October 25, 2018 1:10pm CST
I quit my job just before noon today. Many contributing factors. My husband says he is glad I did. Too many people not acting as a team and acting like they know it all. My supervisor says she understands. I feel like a big failure. I want to cry. My blood sugars are up. My blood pressure is up. I come home in tears many times. Guess I will have more time to myLot.
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• Dallas, Texas
25 Oct 18
How may I ask are you feeling like you are a failure? You quit a job that had no team work going for it and also your husband is glad that you did. It sounds like you did make a proper decision. I know it is hard to do that. Not knowing where you might go next to work could be a good challenge for you though. Change in some cases, is very necessary for us. No such thing as a perfect job but I have had jobs before that seemed more like working in a place full of negative feelings. I hope you do well on your next job or if you decide to just stay home for a while or whatever, enjoy your time off. You probably earned some down time. We all need time to regroup every now and then.
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• Kiryat Ata, Israel
25 Oct 18
@lookatdesktop You write right things: her decision was smart and right so she doesn't need to feel like a failure. My ex-girlfriend had a job she liked but some workers there didn't like her, they made her feel bad, and she didn't hold on that job, she found a better job with better workers around her. Things can only get better from this point I guess.
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@GardenGerty (160998)
• United States
25 Oct 18
If we had enough money I would LOVE to stay home. I have plenty to do. I feel like I let my supervisor down as she just told me yesterday how I had helped save her sanity. I always have a very hard time quitting a job. I feel burnt out, though. It is nice to be able to come here and get support from my myLot family as well.
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@TheHorse (220422)
• Walnut Creek, California
26 Oct 18
Good point. One is not a failure if they leave a dysfunctional situation.
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@Mike197602 (15512)
• United Kingdom
25 Oct 18
Sorry you've got to this stage but sometimes a job is not worth all the hassle. As you say your supervisor understands that says to me there is an issue there. Will you be looking for a new job or taking some time off ? PS...I don't think you are a failure as too many people stick at a job that ends up driving them into the ground and making them ill...sounds like you were going that way so getting out is good not bad in my opinion
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@GardenGerty (160998)
• United States
25 Oct 18
Not sure what I shall be doing at this time. It will be alright, though. I would prefer to only work part time.
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@Mike197602 (15512)
• United Kingdom
25 Oct 18
@GardenGerty wishing you well on your future endeavours/endeavors
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@GardenGerty (160998)
• United States
26 Oct 18
@Mike197602 I am going to enjoy myself, really.
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@allknowing (137961)
• India
26 Oct 18
Take it easy and have fun. I am sure you will find some place to use your talents.
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@GardenGerty (160998)
• United States
26 Oct 18
I have a whole array of talents that were not used at this job. I am ready for some fun again.
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@allknowing (137961)
• India
26 Oct 18
@GardenGerty See!!! I knew that
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@andriaperry (117173)
• Anniston, Alabama
26 Oct 18
No way are you a failure, you actually took control of your life. I sort of felt this coming. I am glad you quit. You can find work that does not stress you out or make you cry.
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@GardenGerty (160998)
• United States
26 Oct 18
Hubby said he wanted me to do this, but he wanted it to be my decision. Yes, money is a bit of a necessity, but we will do okay. Sent you a p.m. just now.
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@GardenGerty (160998)
• United States
27 Oct 18
@andriaperry Basically that is what happened, in a matter of about five minutes I knew I could not do it any more.
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@andriaperry (117173)
• Anniston, Alabama
26 Oct 18
@GardenGerty Thank you. I know its hard not to have work, but its harder to be working and it make your mind and body suffer. You were headed for a break down.
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@JohnRoberts (109846)
• Los Angeles, California
25 Oct 18
Relax. Feel a weight lifted off. You can't stay someplace making you so unhappy and miserable. It'll kill you.
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@GardenGerty (160998)
• United States
25 Oct 18
Yep. I could not stay, as much as I wanted to for certain reasons. The bad was just too much today.
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@hillhjill (23714)
• United States
25 Oct 18
I'm sorry that a place like that drove you to quitting. I understand completely tho I have jobs like that as well and my stress was though the roof. You do what's good for you and take care of yourself.
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@GardenGerty (160998)
• United States
25 Oct 18
@hillhjill I had a job I loved until management changed there. I plotted and took education for a year while planning to quit there. I was twenty years younger then.
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• Kiryat Ata, Israel
25 Oct 18
@hillhjill Can you pleas share what kind of jobs did you have and what caused your stress to climb up to the roof ? How did you deal with the stress ?
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@hillhjill (23714)
• United States
25 Oct 18
@stringer321 The first job I walked away from was Long John silvers. I loved that place for all the years I was there till new mgt took over and started treating me like crap and called me fat (long story) and it stressed me out. I handle it by talking to my husband and he told to do what I want. I walked out and didn't look back.
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@Tina30219 (82066)
• Onaway, Michigan
26 Oct 18
So sorry to hear you had to quit your job I hope you find something better real soon.
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@GardenGerty (160998)
• United States
26 Oct 18
I may just be self employed. I need to be home with my husband and enjoy time with him. How is your boyfriend?
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@GardenGerty (160998)
• United States
26 Oct 18
@Tina30219 It is a long process, I am glad he is doing better.
@Tina30219 (82066)
• Onaway, Michigan
26 Oct 18
@GardenGerty He is doing better every day going to get him tomorrow he goes to getthe bandage removed and then for evaluation to start therapy on his knee.
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@stringer321 (5644)
• Kiryat Ata, Israel
25 Oct 18
I'm sorry to read about the bad negative athmospher your workplace had. One of the basic things for a team to success is team work, communication and not to act like one knows it all. I understand you decided to quit your job. Did you make sure you have another job to work at ? I can't really help here but hope you will find a job with real friends there. Friends who encourage, complement each other, work as a team. Hand shakes hand. Don't let your blood pressure to go up from that incident, stay calm and positive.
@GardenGerty (160998)
• United States
25 Oct 18
I am old enough I should not have to work, but I have always worked.
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• Kiryat Ata, Israel
26 Oct 18
@GardenGerty I understand, maybe you can volunteer somewhere at your spare time ? Did you think about it ?
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@GardenGerty (160998)
• United States
26 Oct 18
@stringer321 I have in the past.
@Juliaacv (51530)
• Canada
26 Oct 18
Welcome back to myLot where your health shouldn't fail as much as it did in your last position. Maybe its quitting day today, I handed in my 2-weeks notice at work. I hope that you come around and feel more yourself in the days to come.
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@GardenGerty (160998)
• United States
26 Oct 18
Oh wow. Did you get the other job? Yes, I love to see my friends here.
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@GardenGerty (160998)
• United States
27 Oct 18
@Juliaacv I am glad for you that you will be working elsewhere. You cannot help having an accident.
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@Juliaacv (51530)
• Canada
26 Oct 18
@GardenGerty Yes, I start another job in November. But I felt that I needed to find another job because there are a lot of mean comments made to me after my workplace accident. Those cost the employer as their insurance rises, but an accident is just that, not intentional.
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@Tampa_girl7 (50573)
• United States
26 Oct 18
I hope that you get a good nights rest and get your blood sugar and pressure down.
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@GardenGerty (160998)
• United States
26 Oct 18
Yes. Neither is dangerously high, but they were definitely up from this summer.
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@Tampa_girl7 (50573)
• United States
26 Oct 18
@GardenGerty now that you quit you should have less stress
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@GardenGerty (160998)
• United States
26 Oct 18
@Tampa_girl7 I will stress a bit over money, but it is okay.
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@HazySue (39268)
• Gouverneur, New York
25 Oct 18
Sometimes it is just better to quit. It sounds like it is effecting you physically. You have been thinking about it for a while.
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@GardenGerty (160998)
• United States
25 Oct 18
Yes, I have. I was tremendously happy at home this summer. We need just a smidgen of money more, or a few debts less.
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@HazySue (39268)
• Gouverneur, New York
26 Oct 18
@GardenGerty I know that feeling.
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@Hannihar (130213)
• Israel
26 Oct 18
@GardenGerty I understand what you are saying but that was not a good job for you and you deserve to find the one that is good for you. You are not a failure.
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@GardenGerty (160998)
• United States
27 Oct 18
@Hannihar Parts of it I liked, parts I did not. People became a real issue, though.
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@GardenGerty (160998)
• United States
26 Oct 18
I feel badly for the supervising teacher. I also hate to quit jobs. I will be okay, though.
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@Hannihar (130213)
• Israel
26 Oct 18
@GardenGerty I can understand that but you did not like the job.
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@Daelii (5619)
• United States
25 Oct 18
Why feel like a failure? if your husband is okay with it and you are comfortable, it makes sense! Why be stressed and crying over your job? Go find something that will make you happy and be a positive experience!
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@GardenGerty (160998)
• United States
25 Oct 18
I always have an incredibly hard time quitting jobs, even when they are awful. I love being at home.
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• Rupert, Idaho
25 Oct 18
Sorry to hear you quit, and about how people acted.
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@GardenGerty (160998)
• United States
25 Oct 18
I am too old for this I am afraid.
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@rsa101 (38166)
• Philippines
26 Oct 18
If the job you are with causes you great stress indeed I think its time to say goodbye to them and wish them luck in their careers there. I am a firm believer that one should be able to withstand the demands of their jobs but there are times that when the pressure is too much to handle that it breaks you as a person then that's the point where I would also do the same thing that you do.
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@GardenGerty (160998)
• United States
26 Oct 18
Yes, I did it rather abruptly. I also believe in sticking it out whenever possible.
@AmbiePam (94084)
• United States
26 Oct 18
I am so sorry. I know it must have been terrible for you to have to quit.
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@GardenGerty (160998)
• United States
26 Oct 18
Yes, it was. I am fortunate that my supervisor understands as she is the one I feel I am letting down, along with one student in particular who has been out sick for almost two weeks.
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@youless (112595)
• Guangzhou, China
26 Oct 18
I am sorry to hear that. Sometimes working is hard because you have to deal with different people. Some are kind and some are mean. I understand it is very frustrating to work with the mean people. Go out and have a walk to feel better. As they don't deserve to ruin your mood.
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@GardenGerty (160998)
• United States
26 Oct 18
I wanted to last out the year, but they have created their situation and need to fix it. I am in a good mood. I will do other things.
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• Bridgton, Maine
25 Oct 18
In general, I don't think it's a good idea to stay with a job that you hate. Life is too short.
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@GardenGerty (160998)
• United States
25 Oct 18
It is not the job itself I hate, just some of the people, but at my age I am too old to do this anymore.
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@GardenGerty (160998)
• United States
26 Oct 18
@MainerMikeBrown So today was a step in caring for myself. I really prefer to be at home more.
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• Bridgton, Maine
25 Oct 18
@GardenGerty Who your coworkers are makes a huge difference, as we all know.
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@wolfgirl569 (108380)
• Marion, Ohio
25 Oct 18
Hope things get better. Understand you quitting.
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@GardenGerty (160998)
• United States
25 Oct 18
The need for money is awful for us. We will survive, though.
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@GardenGerty (160998)
• United States
26 Oct 18
@wolfgirl569 yes, they do.
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@wolfgirl569 (108380)
• Marion, Ohio
25 Oct 18
@GardenGerty Hopefully you can find a happier job. I would still be working at the thrift store if they had not changed managers. It was fun before that. But the new lady knew how to run everyone off, and those that she couldnt she found reasons to fire. I am glad I left it. Enjoyable jobs make it easy to go to work.
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• Philippines
26 Oct 18
I am sure God has bigger and better things in store for you, Heather.
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@GardenGerty (160998)
• United States
26 Oct 18
I have more things I am needed for.
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