Giving and Generosity
@CarolynP777 (103)
United States
October 26, 2018 3:43pm CST
Would like your thoughts and insights.
Why is it the people who have the least to give seem to be the ones who desire and are willing to give the most, while others who have something to offer are the most reluctant to give?
This question was triggered by recent events in my own life and others I've witnessed.
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@1hopefulman (45114)
• Canada
26 Oct 18
Greed? Selfishness? Lack of empathy and love?
I do know some people that have a lot and are very generous.
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@1hopefulman (45114)
• Canada
27 Oct 18
@CarolynP777 The world has a variety of people. There are all kinds. ![](/Content/images/emotes/happy.gif)
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@CarolynP777 (103)
• United States
27 Oct 18
Oh yes! And I didn't mean to imply there weren't.
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@Courage7 (19633)
• United States
26 Oct 18
I believe it to be because they may have a deeper understanding of what it is to need.
This is not to say that those with more have never been without, but by having more, it distances one from true poverty and can make one forget how it is.
I hope you are not in dire need my friend.
Is there anything we can do?
I know it is hard.
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@CarolynP777 (103)
• United States
27 Oct 18
Oh no, it's just that certain things have just got me wondering what motivates people. I was curious as to what others thought.
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@dave121495 (1296)
• Philippines
28 Oct 18
Because rich people think of security that is why they don't give. Just my insight of course.
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@CarolynP777 (103)
• United States
28 Oct 18
Thank you . That's what I was looking for insight from others .
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@septabchips (1141)
• Nigeria
26 Oct 18
I don't think the act of giving has to do with who has much or less to share. Rather i will say that its more about who you really are. I know of people who have much and still give.
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@MainerMikeBrown (1373)
• Bridgton, Maine
26 Oct 18
Those who have the least know what it's like to not have much. Therefore, they can relate to others in need.
However, I think their are lots of people who have a lot who also give a lot to those who need it.
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@CarolynP777 (103)
• United States
27 Oct 18
This is true and I didn't mean to imply that everyone who has a lot doesn't give. I certainly know many generous people. After some things I've observed lately I was just curious to what others thoughts were.
@DWDavis (25805)
• United States
28 Oct 18
Those who have little know best what it is like to have nothing and feel strongly about helping while those who have much don't have the empathy to help them feel what it's like to be without.
Also, this can be a misleading impression. Those who have little and give what they can may, in raw dollars, be giving much less than those who have much and give little when the little they give is added up and deposited to the bank.
@dgobucks226 (36075)
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27 Oct 18
That's a great question. My take on it is those who find themselves in a similar situation or experienced hardship have more empathy. They can relate!
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