RIP Helen
By Jo Ann
@akalinus (43196)
United States
October 31, 2018 2:26pm CST
I lost one of my best friends last night. We have a long history together. We met in NY when our kids were little and have been friends for these many years. We had many zany adventures together.
She moved to Nevada and I moved to Florida but we have remained friends through the whole time.
It is just sinking in that she is really gone. She has been sick for a while and we knew she could not last but the shock is real.
How do you cope with losing one of your best friends?
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18 responses
@just4him (317040)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
1 Nov 18
I'm sorry for your loss. My friend just lost her husband last month and it's hard for her. The only significant loss in my life was my dogs. I know it seems heartless with my parents and brother gone, but we were a dysfunctional family.
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@vandana7 (100272)
• India
15 Nov 18
Sorry Jo Ann. One reason I am glad with online friendships is, that loss would not leave me feeling helpless. I do understand your pain. That said, I am more scared of losing people I take for granted. There are many friends in my life who I believe keep on helping me directly or indirectly and are there for me, when chips are down. I have not given them I feel the status they deserve in my life. I mean, they talk in vernacular, they are traditional, they are orthodox and they don't joke much and they are older than me. Nevertheless, they are like the pillars of the building that will suddenly make you realize how important they were. I fear losing them.
@arthurchappell (44998)
• Preston, England
4 Nov 18
such sad news - hope she lives on through your happy memories of your times together
@arthurchappell (44998)
• Preston, England
4 Nov 18
@akalinus yes very much so, as that is when we realize how valuable our friends really are
@akalinus (43196)
• United States
5 Nov 18
@arthurchappell I have lost so many but she was someone special to me.
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@moffittjc (121570)
• Gainesville, Florida
10 Nov 18
So sorry to hear about the loss of your close friend Jo Ann. I hope you are holding up well in this time of loss. We are constantly reminded how fragile and short life is when we lose friends, family members and other loved ones. That's why we should cherish every waking moment with all those close in our life.
I have never lost a close friend yet, but I've been worried about my friend for years, as he has become obese. I always worried that he would have a heart attack. However, he has recently met this wonderful woman, and he has been working out like crazy and eating healthy so he can look good for her. I'm proud that he is now taking care of himself, and hope this means he will have another good 50 years or so in him!
@moffittjc (121570)
• Gainesville, Florida
10 Nov 18
@akalinus That's why quality time with our friends and loved ones is so important!
@moffittjc (121570)
• Gainesville, Florida
10 Nov 18
@akalinus Wow Jo Ann, you've really been through a lot. To have someone pass away right there in front of you, that has to be surreal. My condolences to you and your son for the heartbreaking loss.
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@septabchips (1141)
• Nigeria
1 Nov 18
Ohhhhhh Noooo! Its always painful when one looses a friend. I am so sorry to know that your friend is gone. May her soul RIP.
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@nnkrlwndrlst (93)
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4 Nov 18
Im sorry for your loss.. I know it's hard but be strong..
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@cindiowens (5120)
• North Myrtle Beach, South Carolina
31 Oct 18
Oh no, I am so sorry. The loss of a dear one is never easy. You just have to take your time, and work through the feelings in your own way. You will always miss her. Remembering the good times sometimes helps the heart heal a bit, but there will always be an empty spot where she once was. It will get easier to deal with, but the loss will never completely go away. Much love and hugs.
@LindaCPearson (2240)
• United States
6 Nov 18
Sorry about your loss. I lost my best friend a few months ago and I know how hard it is. Nothing but time takes some of the loss and pain away. Good memories help.