HOLD ON OR LET GO?
By Myesha
@Shatay (66)
Nigeria
November 2, 2018 6:15pm CST
What do you do when you find your self in a delima of being with someone for long then you suddenly start to feel differently about the person? You dont find it interesting anymore,no happiness, no chemistry, and the person doesnt make an effort to change to make things better like the way it was when you first met. Do you stay and see it through because you feel you owe it to the person for the years you spend together or move on and find happiness again?
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10 responses
@1hopefulman (45120)
• Canada
3 Nov 18
It's hard to say anything without a bit more information. Are you in that kind of dilemma or do you know someone who is in that situation? Are they married? Are there children in the situation? How long has this couple been in this situation? Is there abuse?
@Letranknight2015 (52079)
• Philippines
3 Nov 18
Tell him what you feel, don't pro long the agony. So that he can find some one better.
Don't be selfish to stay on a relationship that you're not happy anymore.
@Letranknight2015 (52079)
• Philippines
4 Nov 18
@Shatay then let go of him. that's really not the way to handle the problem.
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@debjani1 (7202)
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4 Nov 18
Just move on your way. As life goes on then why wasting time? U have the right to live happily. So don't bother what other's think of you. Let it be.
@cherigucchi (14876)
• Philippines
3 Nov 18
It is only one piece of the story but if you cannot really be happy anymore then its better to let go and move on.
@resukill22 (25050)
• Las Pinas City, Philippines
4 Nov 18
for me, if you're not happy at all you let go because not only you will suffer but also him. tell him the truth that you do not love him anymore don't force your self if your relationship with him is not working. the other says that THE TRUTH IS HURT.that is life was not perfect.
@dave121495 (1296)
• Philippines
3 Nov 18
It depends on the situation. Are you experiencing it right now?
@LovelyRB (125)
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4 Nov 18
I guess.. It's better to talk to him and be honest. You should ask for his help to figure things out. After that if you still feel the same and couldn't resolve everything..then you have to move on. Life is too short to be unhappy. May you have guidance and be blessed!
