Social anxiety

St. Paul, Minnesota
November 3, 2018 12:14pm CST
From a very young age I have experienced social anxiety. Teachers would always just say how I’m shy. Well I always had a feeling it had to be more than just being shy. I mean I could replay things over and over in my head until I did or didn’t say them. Public speaking was sheer torture for me! I would count the days till my speech. Then the day would arrive, So i’d Count the hours. Next thing I know I’m in the classroom to deliver my speech. Beating myself up in my head with all the worry of what could go wrong. Then the dreaded moment, my name was called! The things I would have traded to do instead of be up in front of a class delivering my speach. The thought that everyone is staring at your every move and listening to every single word you say with such judgement. There are some more details I have to share about my path to help social anxiety and how it made me who I am today, but I’ll save that for later. I wanted this to be an open and relaxed area on giving tips, tricks or any kind words to those who struggle with social anxiety. Also any questions would be awesome!
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@db20747 (43440)
• Washington, District Of Columbia
3 Nov 18
One way is to focus on the people who R listening to U!!! That builds up confidence!!!
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@theend (2777)
• Gifu, Japan
4 Nov 18
Try to calm down, take a deep breath and breathe lightly. That is how to regain confidence.
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@MissNikki (5237)
• Maple Ridge, British Columbia
26 Jan 19
Thank you very much for sharing. I also deal with depression and anxiety so I understand, and am always looking for new coping strategies.
@porwest (92624)
• United States
25 Dec 18
It's a tough thing for people to live with truly. I had some when I was younger, but luckily got out of most of it, and now I am in sales, and you can't have social anxiety when you are in that kind of a job.
@dave121495 (1296)
• Philippines
5 Nov 18
I'm one of you, so I'll just stick on reading the respond section.
@leny34 (8506)
• Sidoarjo, Indonesia
3 Nov 18
yes, it takes confidence to deliver a speech in public