What would you do?
@LeaPea2417 (37355)
Toccoa, Georgia
November 3, 2018 1:22pm CST
I have a friend from college who I had lost touch with until recently when we reconnected on Facebook. When we connected, the first thing I did was send her a message saying how great it was to reconnect and then I asked her how she had been doing? She responded that she was doing great and had gotten a new job at a grocery store. I said something back, like "how nice".
That is where the conversation ended. I have been waiting for her to ask me about myself and my family and what I have been up to through the years. But, she hasn't and even though I would like to know about her family and what she has done through the years, I am not going to ask until she asks me. Because that is how the conversation ended with me saying the last word.
It is her turn now to ask. I know she has been online. She comes on almost every day.
What would you do? Wait until she asks me about myself, or just go on and ask her about herself?
Am I making too much out of this?
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@LeaPea2417 (37355)
• Toccoa, Georgia
3 Nov 18
My Mom has a cousin who never asks about her family, but my Mom always asks about hers.
@wolfgirl569 (106361)
• Marion, Ohio
3 Nov 18
I would just go on, But you need to decide what feels right for you.
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@Courtlynn (67085)
• United States
6 Nov 18
I do both. Depending how bad i want to know.
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@Hannihar (130218)
• Israel
4 Nov 18
@LeaPea2417
I am sorry to say but maybe she answered you by not answering and isn't interested in reconnecting. I reconnected with someone on facebook that I was once friends with and we had a falling and it was not nice and then we reconnected again and when the truth comes out she gets very nasty. I have had it with her and no more reconnecting.
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