What would you do?

@LeaPea2417 (37387)
Toccoa, Georgia
November 3, 2018 1:22pm CST
I have a friend from college who I had lost touch with until recently when we reconnected on Facebook. When we connected, the first thing I did was send her a message saying how great it was to reconnect and then I asked her how she had been doing? She responded that she was doing great and had gotten a new job at a grocery store. I said something back, like "how nice". That is where the conversation ended. I have been waiting for her to ask me about myself and my family and what I have been up to through the years. But, she hasn't and even though I would like to know about her family and what she has done through the years, I am not going to ask until she asks me. Because that is how the conversation ended with me saying the last word. It is her turn now to ask. I know she has been online. She comes on almost every day. What would you do? Wait until she asks me about myself, or just go on and ask her about herself? Am I making too much out of this?
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@shubhu3 (36463)
• New Delhi, India
3 Nov 18
May be you are thinking more.
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@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
3 Nov 18
That is a hard one to call. Personally, I would just go on.
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@jstory07 (140168)
• Roseburg, Oregon
3 Nov 18
I would ask her about her family and if she does not ask you about yours quit asking about hers. Some people think only of themselves.
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@LeaPea2417 (37387)
• Toccoa, Georgia
3 Nov 18
My Mom has a cousin who never asks about her family, but my Mom always asks about hers.
@DianneN (247184)
• United States
6 Nov 18
I would wait. It's her turn to ask - if she really cares.
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@LeaPea2417 (37387)
• Toccoa, Georgia
7 Nov 18
Yes, I agree.
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@DianneN (247184)
• United States
7 Nov 18
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@JudyEv (342335)
• Rockingham, Australia
4 Nov 18
I don't think you are making too much out of it. I'd be waiting for her to make the next move.
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@LeaPea2417 (37387)
• Toccoa, Georgia
4 Nov 18
Yes, that is what I am thinking.
@aureliah (24326)
• Kenya
3 Nov 18
Has she read the message? There could be several reasons why she never responded
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@LeaPea2417 (37387)
• Toccoa, Georgia
4 Nov 18
Yes, she did read it.
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@aureliah (24326)
• Kenya
11 Nov 18
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@amadeo (111938)
• United States
3 Nov 18
this is all up to you how you feel about it.How much personal question you want answered.
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@wolfgirl569 (108478)
• Marion, Ohio
3 Nov 18
I would just go on, But you need to decide what feels right for you.
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@Courtlynn (67080)
• United States
6 Nov 18
I do both. Depending how bad i want to know.
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@Hannihar (130213)
• Israel
4 Nov 18
@LeaPea2417 I am sorry to say but maybe she answered you by not answering and isn't interested in reconnecting. I reconnected with someone on facebook that I was once friends with and we had a falling and it was not nice and then we reconnected again and when the truth comes out she gets very nasty. I have had it with her and no more reconnecting.
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@byjames (70)
4 Nov 18
Maybe she's not in the mood to chat. Girls are "moody", and most of the things they say or do depend a lot on the current mood they are in. I would suggest you wait, for like a week, and see how she'll react to your text.
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