Stop asking me for suggestion!
By Merryjoy
@resukill22 (25050)
Las Pinas City, Philippines
November 6, 2018 9:24am CST
I don't know why my best friend always ask me what is the best hair for her? And everytime I answerd her it's good if your hair is short, then she reply I don't want a short hair, oh my god I really don't understand her,she always ask me for suggestion if I gave her a suggestion she always won't accept.
she always ask me then if I answerd she always say she don't want. Sometimes I want to talk to her straight that stop asking me if you don't want my suggestion, because I'm tired to give you a suggestion if you don't want it.
Do you think she's not getting hurt if I say that to her?
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4 responses
@tech40 (23121)
• Philippines
6 Nov 18
@resukill22 Haha yeah! They'll need suggestion and if you give suggestion they'll disagree with it. Nah! It's like a love life, they need an advice but they're just going to ignore your advice haha!
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@resukill22 (25050)
• Las Pinas City, Philippines
6 Nov 18
Yeah, and we are all pretty in a different ways. Haha I'm I right?
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@resukill22 (25050)
• Las Pinas City, Philippines
6 Nov 18
@tech40 haha, so they must stop asking for suggestion hahaha, so no hurt feelings attached haha.
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@flapiz (23148)
• United Kingdom
6 Nov 18
She sounds like my boyfriend. And I tell him off everytime he asks in a joking manner. “Why would you ask me when we both know
You’re going to do the opposite.”
He takes it quite well. I think you should tell your friend in a joking manner 
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@resukill22 (25050)
• Las Pinas City, Philippines
6 Nov 18
I think that was a good idea, so shes not getting hurt
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@flapiz (23148)
• United Kingdom
6 Nov 18
@resukill22 She shouldn’t you’re besties. If you can’t even tell her the truth without her being offended then that’s not a very deep friendship.
According to pooh bear, “only true friends can be brutally honest.”
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@resukill22 (25050)
• Las Pinas City, Philippines
6 Nov 18
@flapiz yes you have a point,and if she feel bad if I tell her the truth, it much better we split up as a friend.. And I will wait until he find out her mistakes.
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@resukill22 (25050)
• Las Pinas City, Philippines
7 Nov 18
Yes correct but sometimes it's hard to give suggestion because they don't want it.
@LovelyRB (125)
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6 Nov 18
If she's your best friend, I think you should talk to her in serious manner. Communication is the key to keep your friendship last. Tell her that sometimes you couldn't understand what she really wants from you esp.when she's asking for your opinion. I bet she'll understand and you'll feel a lot better. Good luck!
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@resukill22 (25050)
• Las Pinas City, Philippines
6 Nov 18
Okay thank you your correct, I will do that
