I am still trying to figure out what her problem was.
By AmberLynn
@ScribbledAdNauseum (104628)
United States
November 9, 2018 7:55pm CST
Okay so maybe "problem" isn't the proper word.
I had dinner with the family tonight, as we normally do. My aunt and I were both wearing leggings, but I was walking beside and slightly in front of her. This lady at one of the booths gave me this disapproving look and a once over - about twice.
I mean, was it the leggings? They were elephant print. A maroon, black and white color pattern. I had a long sleeved hoodie type shirt with the eyelet holes and a drawstring threaded through several of the holes for decency.
Maybe it was my socks. I went for warmth over style and so some of the green and black pattern was showing between my shoe and my legging.
I am not sure what she was so bothered about, and I don't care either. Maybe she thinks leggings are "bad taste" or only meant to be worn under a skirt.
I just let her judge, but I did wonder if she scrutinized my aunt as well, who was wearing a hoodie and a cute pair of flower leggings.
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@thislittlepennyearns (62259)
• Defuniak Springs, Florida
10 Nov 18
I used to care and now I dont. Granted I don't wear much else but work clothes when I go to town because until I move on Sunday, all my going into town involves me working. But I wear sweats the the store and I honestly don't care. I'm not dressing for them. Some people just have to judge everything they see.
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@ScribbledAdNauseum (104628)
• United States
10 Nov 18
I guess I was a little surprised at her blatant and apparent judgment. I probably would have said something if i was with other people, but being with my family I kept my mouth shut.
I wouldn't have started anything, but I probably would have told her her disgust was evident and perhaps she'd like to work on that.
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@thislittlepennyearns (62259)
• Defuniak Springs, Florida
10 Nov 18
@ScribbledAdNauseum I would of told her to take a picture because it would longer.
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@ScribbledAdNauseum (104628)
• United States
10 Nov 18
@thislittlepennyearns I was tempted to fall back behind my aunt to see if she would have judged my aunt as harshly, or if it was just me.
Yeah, that's a good line.
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
10 Nov 18
That always makes me feel uncomfortable when I see somebody judging me when they don't even know me. I like to dress comfortably and I don't judge anybody for what they wear. Everybody has their own style.
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@ScribbledAdNauseum (104628)
• United States
10 Nov 18
I didn't let it bother me. I had been having a pretty bad day but seeing her blatant judgment actually mad me smile. I knew there was nothing wrong with what I was wearing.
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@Happy2BeMe (99380)
• Canada
10 Nov 18
@ScribbledAdNauseum some people are just like that..they judge everybody.
@ScribbledAdNauseum (104628)
• United States
10 Nov 18
There was another rude guy I just remembered as well, I may write about him in a few minutes.
I know that people have bad days, and nobody is perfect. Everyone judges as well, those who say they don't, still do, just to a lesser degree. Anyway, I didn't let her attitude bother me, and honestly it made me feel a little better as I had been having a bad day before then.
Did you go for a walk this morning?
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@tammys85 (30065)
• Baltimore, Maryland
10 Nov 18
She needs to keep her dirty looks to herself. Nobody has the room to judge anyone, at least in my opinion. I think your outfit sounds cute, btw. :) I've always wondered if I could pull off patterned leggings. Mine are usually a solid color, but I saw a pair at Walmart that I liked, black with snowflakes on them.
@tammys85 (30065)
• Baltimore, Maryland
12 Nov 18
@ScribbledAdNauseum Thanks, I may just do it, depending on the price and style. :) It couldn't hurt to just try one pair. I get my solid colored ones from Walmart mainly, and one pair from 5 Below.
I think I want a winter pair instead of Christmas, so I can wear them even after Christmas. Not that I can't, but still lol. Or maybe Valentine's Day - I'd wear pink and hearts all year round lol. Oooh, I'll have to check out your posts to see if they arrived. :)
@ScribbledAdNauseum (104628)
• United States
10 Nov 18
I say go for it! My first pair of leggings were patterned. In fact, every pair I have is patterned. I am going to have to buy some solid colored ones soon.
I need to go back to walmart and look at the leggings again. They didn't have very many christmas-y ones out yet. I bought some halloween style ones off of ebay. I hope they arrive today, and if they do, I'll probably write about it here.
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@ScribbledAdNauseum (104628)
• United States
10 Nov 18
I will admit that there are exceptions. I know of one girl who dresses for a body type she does not have, or at the very least, wears clothes that don't fit her properly. I don't talk to her, but even if I did, I wouldn't say anything to her. She's happy the way she is, though the way she dresses isn't exactly decent.
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@LadyDuck (471356)
• Switzerland
10 Nov 18
@ScribbledAdNauseum I know what you mean, I have a friend who still dresses like she was a teenagers, so she looks ridiculous. If she likes, I feel bad saying something.
@LadyDuck (471356)
• Switzerland
10 Nov 18
@ScribbledAdNauseum Oh my goodness, she exaggerated a bit, my friend also does when she wears too short skirts, but she is decent at least.
@ScribbledAdNauseum (104628)
• United States
10 Nov 18
I was tempted to point out to her that her disgust was evident on her face, but then that either would not have made a difference or she would have been more prone to say what she thought was wrong with my outfit.
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@Courage7 (19633)
• United States
11 Nov 18
@ScribbledAdNauseum OH yes I would have been so tempted to to give her what for. You did good not saying anything tho to not show you were bothered by her.
@dpk262006 (58676)
• Delhi, India
12 Nov 18
You cannot stop such people from judging you and it is better not to care what others think about your outfit.
@scarlet_woman (23463)
• United States
10 Nov 18
some people have a bug up their butt about leggings.
they need to just MYOB about it..
@ScribbledAdNauseum (104628)
• United States
10 Nov 18
Agreed. The world would be a better place if people minded their own business more.
Leggings are comfortable and I don't see any harm in them.
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@jahernandezrivas (11288)
• United States
10 Nov 18
I love leggings! I don't care what people think of me or what I wear! I like to be comfortable, so I would wear elephant leggings any day 
Another thing happened our streets are under construction for a Year My mailbox key didn;t work had to call the city to get a new key now we have to drive down to a little cove down the street to get our mail took them 2 days to get it to me!But I do not mind our streets are so bad here! We went to the meeting last week and he was a nice guy everybody had questions It was a lot of fun!
Another thing happened our streets are under construction for a Year My mailbox key didn;t work had to call the city to get a new key now we have to drive down to a little cove down the street to get our mail took them 2 days to get it to me!But I do not mind our streets are so bad here! We went to the meeting last week and he was a nice guy everybody had questions It was a lot of fun!@ScribbledAdNauseum (104628)
• United States
10 Nov 18
Yes, I love leggings as well. I love being comfortable.
Our streets are slowly getting better here. There's a lot of road construction going on in our city. A major interstate will be shut down soon for road work, of course that will inconvenience a lot of people.
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@ScribbledAdNauseum (104628)
• United States
10 Nov 18
You're right, it's gotta be jealousy. Oh well, let her stay jealous.
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@jstory07 (139627)
• Roseburg, Oregon
10 Nov 18
I have lots of leggings and I love them. They are great.
@ScribbledAdNauseum (104628)
• United States
10 Nov 18
So comfortable! I would wear them every day if I could.
@garymarsh6 (23404)
• United Kingdom
10 Nov 18
I would not worry about how others think! Just enjoy yourself!
@ScribbledAdNauseum (104628)
• United States
10 Nov 18
Gary, the woman actually made my day. I had been feeling pretty bad yesterday but her open judgement made me feel better about myself. Atleast I am not one to be so blatantly obvious with my distaste of something.
@ScribbledAdNauseum (104628)
• United States
10 Nov 18
Oh no, she didn't like it. The expression on her face was one of distaste.
I need to get myself some plain leggings. There are some leggings that are a bit thicker and are warmer.
I wore a pair of socks that go right below my knee underneath my leggings yesterday. It helped keep me warm.
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@JustBhem (70555)
• Davao, Philippines
11 Nov 18
@ScribbledAdNauseum
And why she was like that?
I also have neighbors who are like that. They don't like some people's taste in fashion.
