Why do people ask stupid question.

@amadeo (111938)
United States
November 13, 2018 11:36am CST
I will just ignored them.People asking me why I am gay? thought that it was a stupid question.It is stupid. like saying why are you straight How do you handled it.Oh well I know should expect this now and then. photo is mine
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38 responses
• Calgary, Alberta
13 Nov 18
I encounter some people here who thinks gay and transgender is the same thing. So you haven't met the worst yet.
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@DWDavis (25805)
• United States
13 Nov 18
@db20747 Before I try to explain the difference I must ask if this is a serious question and are you really interested in learning the answer?
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@amadeo (111938)
• United States
13 Nov 18
@CaptAlberWhisker are the serious.
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@db20747 (43440)
• Washington, District Of Columbia
13 Nov 18
gay and transgender aren't the same thing??!! How is that so??!!
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@sallypup (61158)
• Centralia, Washington
13 Nov 18
That's a good way to weed out who your friends are.
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@amadeo (111938)
• United States
13 Nov 18
@sallypup I have got rid of a few.
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@sallypup (61158)
• Centralia, Washington
13 Nov 18
@amadeo I tend to not do what a good deal of the female population does, in hair styles and such so I don't have many friends. Phony people and me just don't get along. Accepting me and my house is crucial to hearing from me again. I've dumped more than kept, when it comes to people.
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@LeaPea2417 (37355)
• Toccoa, Georgia
13 Nov 18
Some people are too nosy.
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@amadeo (111938)
• United States
13 Nov 18
@LeaPea2417 that is for sure
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@NJChicaa (119636)
• United States
13 Nov 18
I would ask them why they think they can ask you that question. Why is it any of their business?
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@jstory07 (139742)
• Roseburg, Oregon
13 Nov 18
I do not brother I just walk away.
@amadeo (111938)
• United States
13 Nov 18
@NJChicaa yes your right there.But we have nosy people
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@amadeo (111938)
• United States
13 Nov 18
@jstory07 that is the only thing that you can do
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@FayeHazel (40243)
• United States
13 Nov 18
Hm, I think that is an error of people who don't know many gay people, maybe.
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@amadeo (111938)
• United States
13 Nov 18
@FayeHazel yes I can imagine there.
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@leny34 (8506)
• Sidoarjo, Indonesia
13 Nov 18
in my opinion the question should not be worth saying ... because it will offend ... they should have realized that
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@amadeo (111938)
• United States
13 Nov 18
@leny34 good point there thank you.
@marguicha (223077)
• Chile
14 Nov 18
Why do you tag everyone of your posts with the word "gay"? I do not tag mine with "straight". Maybe that calls for some stupid questions.
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@marguicha (223077)
• Chile
18 Nov 18
@porwest There are many tags that some people use that only serve the purpose of bothering someone. I do agree though that some are there even if you donĀ“t mean to have them.
@porwest (90937)
• United States
18 Nov 18
I tend to agree with you on this. As I have stated in the past. I just don't think that tag needs to be there. And when it IS there it seems to say "I want you to know about my preference, I am interested in challenging you, and when you do I will call you out as a hater even though I have quite literally begged the question." But that's just me.
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@DWDavis (25805)
• United States
13 Nov 18
There are still too many people who either don't know or won't accept that being gay is something you are and not something you choose to do. Perhaps the next time someone asks you that question you could reply, "Because it's better than going through life miserable and forlorn," and see if they even understand why that could be a correct answer to their question. Chances are they won't have a clue because if they had a clue they wouldn't have asked the question to begin with.
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@amadeo (111938)
• United States
13 Nov 18
@DWDavis yes your right.I have been in the closet for a long time.Now I feel freedom.But there are always someone out there trying to make things hard for us. Thank you for your comment on this.
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@LadyDuck (471421)
• Switzerland
14 Nov 18
This is a stupid question, look at them and ask "why do you have brown eyes?", then wait for their reply.
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@Aquitaine24 (11813)
• San Jose, California
25 Nov 18
It's genetic :)
@LadyDuck (471421)
• Switzerland
25 Nov 18
@Aquitaine24 Not even that, my mother had dark eyes and I have light green eyes. There is not at all a reason.
@Fleura (30404)
• United Kingdom
13 Nov 18
You should do exactly as you said - ask them why they are straight/not gay.
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@amadeo (111938)
• United States
13 Nov 18
@Fleura may be the do not realized what is straight?
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@Fleura (30404)
• United Kingdom
14 Nov 18
@amadeo Maybe not - your chance to educate them! When people ask me stupid questions I always try to turn them around and ask them!
@DianneN (247186)
• United States
13 Nov 18
Stupid is as stupid does. There are too many stupid people in this world. It's best to get them out of your life.
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@amadeo (111938)
• United States
13 Nov 18
@DianneN yes I try to weed them out.I cannot educate them.
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@DianneN (247186)
• United States
13 Nov 18
@amadeo No, educating them won't help at this stage of the game. Not even special education. And to think I thought run on sentences were bad!!!!
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@db20747 (43440)
• Washington, District Of Columbia
13 Nov 18
What was your answer my dear??!! How did you handle the question!!! You could tell them none of your bizwax!!!
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@amadeo (111938)
• United States
13 Nov 18
@db20747 no that is not me.First I try to educate them some.I am not the type of person to be hateful. I will answer their question if they are serious.
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@db20747 (43440)
• Washington, District Of Columbia
14 Nov 18
@amadeo But there really is no clear cut answer to this question, Is it??!!!
@florelway (23286)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
16 Nov 18
I often encounter stupid questions such as: Why are you not married?, Why didn't you have kids? Who will take care of you when you get old? Why are you still single and a lot more. Hey why are they so concerned with my life?
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@amadeo (111938)
• United States
16 Nov 18
I am married,I have kids .People are jealous very.
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@Nevena83 (65277)
• Serbia
26 Nov 18
They say to me-There is no stupid question, but just a stupid answer.
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@amadeo (111938)
• United States
26 Nov 18
I liked that.Thanks
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@Nevena83 (65277)
• Serbia
26 Nov 18
@amadeo welcome
@maximax8 (31046)
• United Kingdom
14 Nov 18
I suggest some people don't understand a personal identity. I read a blog yesterday by a black American lady. She went couch surfing and the person that she stayed with hadn't ever seen a black person before. He acted in an amazing way to her however she felt he was a bit insulting. I met a German gay man when I was 20 to 21 years old in Australia. I felt respect and friendship towards him. Nobody should ask why you are gay.
@maximax8 (31046)
• United Kingdom
15 Nov 18
Thanks for saying that. I know so many different sorts of people and meet them on my travels.
@amadeo (111938)
• United States
14 Nov 18
@maximax8 yes you know how people are.I can see that.
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@amadeo (111938)
• United States
15 Nov 18
@maximax8 same here majority are lovely people we came across.
@shaggin (72141)
• United States
13 Nov 18
I think some people still think it is a choice you can make but they really just don't get it. We are how we are no matter if that's gay, bi or straight.
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@amadeo (111938)
• United States
13 Nov 18
@shaggin your so right there.It is what we are
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@akp100 (13640)
• India
14 Nov 18
That's really nice picture taken by you. About question, yes many people do that and even I don't know why they goes for such thing. For us its like we can't understand, and for them its like they can't just avoid. So normally I just ignore them if I face any odd question.
@akp100 (13640)
• India
15 Nov 18
@amadeo Yes for sure. Nicely taken.
@amadeo (111938)
• United States
15 Nov 18
@akp100 This Lily this summer in our garden.Thank you
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@amadeo (111938)
• United States
14 Nov 18
@akpi100 this is the lily from our garden this summer.Need something to cheer me up and you also I hope
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@andriaperry (116936)
• Anniston, Alabama
14 Nov 18
I am sorry but this post made me laugh, that is a real stupid question!
@amadeo (111938)
• United States
14 Nov 18
@andriaperry good morning and yes it is a stupid one.What are you up to today
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@andriaperry (116936)
• Anniston, Alabama
14 Nov 18
@amadeo I have to take Tony to the doctor for his Ocdivo infusion.
@debjani1 (7202)
14 Nov 18
Just ignore them if you are happy. Don't bother what other's are talking about you.
@amadeo (111938)
• United States
14 Nov 18
@debjani I do very much.thank you.
@debjani1 (7202)
14 Nov 18
@amadeo you are welcome.
• Jamaica
14 Nov 18
The Stupid questions let you know, the friends worth keeping and the ones you should give the cold shoulder.
@amadeo (111938)
• United States
14 Nov 18
@Krish2017 yes I guess.Nice to meet you
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• Jamaica
14 Nov 18
@amadeo nice to meet you too..