Regrets

North Myrtle Beach, South Carolina
November 14, 2018 7:10pm CST
Jon, 93, said that his only real regret in life, is that he had never been in love. Not REAL love. He had three wives, and was married to none of them more than a few years, so he said that pretty much proved his point. He never had children, and only once had a dog that he named Spot because he didn't really care enough to come up with an original name. Spot stayed around longer than any of the wives, but dogs are loyal like that. They don't care if you cheat on them, as long as you come home. It's not likely he'll find love now. --- Sophie, 78, regrets that she never learned to do the Tango, and that she didn't kiss Harris B on the lips that night when he dropped her off. He never called her again, and she's sure that's why. She later married, and had children and "Tons of grandchildren". She hardly ever sees them though because they all live so far away. Some of the grandchildren she has never even met. She still has time. That's what we all think. --- Franklin, 54, regrets not spending more time with his wife before she got ill. He loved her, but paid more attention to his job. The job that he got fired from for having to stay with her so much in the hospital. Yeah, that job. He now works as little as he can and spends the rest of his time trying to drink away his sorrow. --- Blaise, 7, only regrets that he most likely won't have a double digit birthday party. He says if he makes it to the big one-oh, he will be content. You see, Blaise has always had leukemia. He doesn't know any other life, and he has made the best out of every single day. He loves, and he is loved. --- No matter how old we are, let us not be a Jon, Sophie, or Franklin. Let's be a Blaise, and embrace life while we're living it. We are never promised tomorrow.
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@DianneN (247184)
• United States
15 Nov 18
I'm sure we all have a few regrets, but nothing as sad as the above.
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@DianneN (247184)
• United States
15 Nov 18
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• North Myrtle Beach, South Carolina
15 Nov 18
@DianneN Aw thanks.
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• North Myrtle Beach, South Carolina
15 Nov 18
Yeah, I have a few.
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@moffittjc (121736)
• Gainesville, Florida
15 Nov 18
Such wonderful words of wisdom. Although I'm human like everybody else and have bad days every now and then, I do try to live each day like it was my last. I've had many people tell me that they think that's why I'm so adventuresome (translation: wild and crazy). I just like to have fun. We only get one chance at our time on this rock, so might as well make the most of it.
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@moffittjc (121736)
• Gainesville, Florida
15 Nov 18
@cindiowens Oh yeah, good point. There are definitely some non-humans walking among us. Sometimes it's hard to tell which though.
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• North Myrtle Beach, South Carolina
15 Nov 18
Do you honestly think everybody is human? I have my doubts sometimes!
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@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
18 Nov 18
great concept and i have done that but am unable to do it now
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@bunnybon7 (50973)
• Holiday, Florida
19 Nov 18
@cindiowens i have no way to get out or even move much. all i can do is enjoy tv, the internet, and some times eating doesn't hurt me but sometimes makes me sick
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• North Myrtle Beach, South Carolina
19 Nov 18
You are unable to do what? Embrace life? Why not?
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• North Myrtle Beach, South Carolina
19 Nov 18
@bunnybon7 Your ability has nothing to do with your heart. You can still embrace life and enjoy what you do have. You are obviously doing that it seems. Here's a hug.
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@SIMPLYD (90721)
• Philippines
16 Nov 18
Regrets cannot be avoided because sometimes, we get weak in deciding to go for it. But so far now, I am happy with my life.
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@SIMPLYD (90721)
• Philippines
16 Nov 18
@cindiowens Thank you.
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• North Myrtle Beach, South Carolina
16 Nov 18
Good. That is wonderful.
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@sallypup (61691)
• Centralia, Washington
15 Nov 18
You're right. Its past time to start dancing. Thanks for the reminder.
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@sallypup (61691)
• Centralia, Washington
15 Nov 18
@cindiowens I agree and there is also literary dancing.
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• North Myrtle Beach, South Carolina
15 Nov 18
@sallypup Yes! So, see?
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• North Myrtle Beach, South Carolina
15 Nov 18
Oh @sallypup its never too late to dance. Even people in wheelchairs dance. If all you can do is move your eyeballs to the music then that's a dance.
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@andriaperry (117157)
• Anniston, Alabama
15 Nov 18
I have never been IN love either.
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• North Myrtle Beach, South Carolina
15 Nov 18
Aw, that's so sad.
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@allknowing (137908)
• India
15 Nov 18
Fine examples of what one should avoid in one's life. Blaise is sure a happy kid.
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• North Myrtle Beach, South Carolina
19 Nov 18
He knows how to appreciate what he has.
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@BelleStarr (61101)
• United States
16 Nov 18
Right now I have no regrets, I try to live each day like it is my last.
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• North Myrtle Beach, South Carolina
16 Nov 18
That is wonderful!
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@LadyDuck (472087)
• Switzerland
15 Nov 18
I am pretty sure that when our day will come, we all have something we regret we never did.
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@LadyDuck (472087)
• Switzerland
15 Nov 18
@cindiowens I move on, there are beautiful days to live in our life.
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• North Myrtle Beach, South Carolina
15 Nov 18
I know I already have a few, but I try not to let them weigh me down.
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@TheHorse (220356)
• Walnut Creek, California
19 Nov 18
I regret things that I DIDN'T do more than things I DID do. But I do regret that Anne and I drank too much Jack Daniels before I worked up the nerve to kiss her when I was 19. She wound up puking that night, and the kissing was done. We kissed again, but never got past "second base." I have other regrets as well.
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• North Myrtle Beach, South Carolina
19 Nov 18
We all have little regrets. Some have really big ones though.
@just4him (317277)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
18 Nov 18
I agree with you about embracing life and having no regrets like Blaise whose only hope is to be 10 years old.
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• North Myrtle Beach, South Carolina
19 Nov 18
Thank you.
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• Agra, India
15 Nov 18
Very well said. I loved to read the last line.
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• North Myrtle Beach, South Carolina
15 Nov 18
Thanks. Did you love the last line because it meant you were at the end?
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• Agra, India
16 Nov 18
@cindiowens not at all...when I was writing it I thought you might feel so. I read the whole part and loved the inspiring words you wrote at the end.
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@Courage7 (19633)
• United States
15 Nov 18
I agree whole heartedly. Thanks so much for sharing this reminder Cynthia. Lost my Mom not too long ago so it is hitting me hard about this. One life for sure.
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• North Myrtle Beach, South Carolina
19 Nov 18
It is very hard when we lose someone. Just the fact that we can no longer pick up the phone and call them. I am sorry for the loss of your mother. My condolences.
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@Courage7 (19633)
• United States
22 Nov 18
@cindiowens Thank you so much much appreciated Cynthia. A Happy Thanksgiving to you and yours if you celebrate it.
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@simplfred (20641)
• Philippines
16 Nov 18
We all have one of "what if" stuff. What if I did this, my life would been different. Sometimes the wind of fate takes control on most of our journey.
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• North Myrtle Beach, South Carolina
16 Nov 18
I believe we choose our fate.
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@simplfred (20641)
• Philippines
16 Nov 18
@cindiowens We kinda did but at most we don't. We indeed control the machine but this machine is not our own. The wind dictates every pace. We may plan nice things, we may chose the seems right one but at the end, the final say - belongs to fate. Just my take.
@rsa101 (38166)
• Philippines
15 Nov 18
Well we really don't get what we want in our lives at some point in our lives so I really think that we will have our own version of regrets when the day comes. What we can do is avoid those that have pass us and be grateful with that you have right now.
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• North Myrtle Beach, South Carolina
15 Nov 18
I was talking more about our decisions in life rather than what life gave us. We have all made decisions that we regretted from time to time.
• Valdosta, Georgia
15 Nov 18
When I was born again my regrets went away with the old person I was. If I'm living in a spiritual mindset I won't have any regrets. Living close to God helps in many ways. =)
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• North Myrtle Beach, South Carolina
15 Nov 18
Good for you @LovingMyBabies!
@RasmaSandra (80847)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
15 Nov 18
Of all of them, Blaise has the true meaning of life right. Live it right and be happy with what you have and make every day count.
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• North Myrtle Beach, South Carolina
15 Nov 18
Yes, Blaise has not lived long enough to do much wrong to regret.
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@Morleyhunt (21744)
• Canada
15 Nov 18
I try to live my life without regrets. More money would be nice...but I've learned to work with what I have. I think the reason Jon was never "in love" was because he never learned to love unconditionally. It's probably best that he never had children....he couldn't even be bothered to think of a good name for his dog.
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• North Myrtle Beach, South Carolina
15 Nov 18
You might be right @Morleyhunt.
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@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
15 Nov 18
Absolutely. Regrets sure make life difficult to deal with.
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• North Myrtle Beach, South Carolina
15 Nov 18
Yes they do.