cheating spouse??

@kiah25 (128)
United States
November 28, 2006 10:14am CST
I you caught your spouse cheating on you what would you do? Kick them to the curb? Give them another chance? I would personally have a hard time trusting them after that.
9 responses
anzil05
@anzil05 (14)
• India
16 Feb 07
if the person confesses or accepts the mistake and asks for forgiveness i would surely forgive them . reason being forgiveness is the bigges punishment.
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blueman
@blueman (16509)
• India
28 Nov 06
i think trust and to be truthful with you partner is required in a relationship.
kiah25
@kiah25 (128)
• United States
30 Nov 06
too true...if you can't trust them you don't have a solid relationship.
rmuxagirl
@rmuxagirl (7548)
• United States
28 Nov 06
I would most likely kick him to the curb. There is no way that I will share my man. And Like you said...I would have a hard time trusting him again.
rmuxagirl
@rmuxagirl (7548)
• United States
28 Nov 06
sry for the triple post my computer went haywire.
rmuxagirl
@rmuxagirl (7548)
• United States
28 Nov 06
I would most likely kick him to the curb. There is no way that I will share my man. And Like you said...I would have a hard time trusting him again.
kiah25
@kiah25 (128)
• United States
28 Nov 06
i've not had this experience so I couldn't say for sure, and unfortunately it's might depand to a small degree if we had children at the time too. I agree though I don't share anything well, much less my husband
LizWoodward
@LizWoodward (189)
• United States
28 Nov 06
I would leave him after cutting off his balls. I wouldn't be able to trust again.
kiah25
@kiah25 (128)
• United States
30 Nov 06
i agree...
guptaajayj
@guptaajayj (362)
• India
28 Nov 06
i will kick her and do new marraige
kiah25
@kiah25 (128)
• United States
30 Nov 06
sounds like a good plan..
rmuxagirl
@rmuxagirl (7548)
• United States
28 Nov 06
I would most likely kick him to the curb. There is no way that I will share my man. And Like you said...I would have a hard time trusting him again.
guyinbluepants
@guyinbluepants (225)
• Pakistan
16 Feb 07
hmmm ... give her a good beating and leave her ... lets not hope that stuff like that happens in anyone of our lives .... PEACE!!!!
coolsid2007
@coolsid2007 (1030)
• India
16 Feb 07
believe me ... for me its like ..."I'VE BEEN THERE I'VE DONE THAT" ... i can give a chance if one admits before i come to know about it ... being a human being i dont think anyone is as perfect as they seem to be... i would try to give one more chance just for the sake of time that we have spent together and just for the sake of promises that we had made ofcourse just a little more cautious this time round... I dont expect too much from anyone may be that is the reason i am like this ... and also that i dont think anyone in this world is as perfect as we want them to be ...its just about understanding ,,, i would rather be upset of not understanding me instead of being upset for cheating me ... thanks sid