What I Do First Before I Decide To Follow A Fellow myLoter

I usually ask a member to mention his or her home country. Some posts are simply not understandable if they don't do this. (Example, "It's raining here."!!!) Yet, I've noticed that many of those who don't do this find that they are more interesting or mysterious if they leave us in the dark about their whereabouts. Maybe it spices up a boring life.

And I know you are enjoying every bit of humor you shared with us. Hey, I'm a Filipina (Female for Filipino) and I'm from the Philippines.

What if I'm neither male or female? There are a lot of jerks and arrogant fools here. I've met some old jerk here who is neither male or female.

That's what i always do too. I check on what kind of posts the myLottet make. If they are of same.inyerest to me, i follow. It is important too that he/she knows how to joke from time to.time.and knows how to discern which one is a joke.

I also check out how they write their discussions.

When I am deciding who to follow I will comment on the post that I am reading and then go to their profile to see what other posts they have written. I try to make it a rule of thumb to read up to 2 posts they have written in the past and comment on them as well before moving on. Sometimes if I see more than those 2 that I can relate to etc. then I will actually "stalk" their posts to read and comment on other ones as well I am not so concerned with where they are from as long as they write posts that I can relate to, have something to say, and of course as long as I can understand them. I have also gotten into the habit of when someone comments on one of my posts, I try and return the favor by checking out their page and seeing what they have. That's when I will also do the above by checking out a few of them. Its not really returning the favor as its more about connecting with more people here to make friends and getting to know one another, but at the same time it returns the favor. I also believe that makes people more apt to check your posts out and also just make them feel like someone is actually there and interested in the things they have to say. *Just because of the topic of the post. If you were to check my page right now it is pretty bare with no info, no pictures, only 1 post, and only a few comments. That is because I started out as Crazzydolphin. I then decided that I was going to start completely over in which the admin helped me to do so. Then I wound up having to start over one more time and added the date to my original name. I did this a while back, left a comment or 2, and now I am back fully starting today. I am very happy about that but just in case you decided to try and check my profile you will understand why it is so bare. By the way I am from the US.* Hope you have a wonderful day today

Hello. I am a Filipino. I was born in Pangasinan. My mother is from Pampanga and my father is from Benguet. So I am KapampaNGUET. Lol. That's a joke.

I follow if they are active, depends on my mood though. Sometimes those I follows end up being absent for a long time.

I do more or less the same before deciding if to follow or not. I do not pretend to know the name of the city where myLotters live, but at least the country. I hate to read "in my country usually we eat..." and the country is not mentioned.

I think it is often easier to leave an intelligent comment if I know where the Mylotter lives. It also sometimes explains their poor grasp of the English language. Sometimes it helps me to understand their somewhat inappropriate comment.

You ate right, topics like politics and religion will just lead to arguments unless a fellow mylotter is open-minded.