Your spouse has been in a coma for 10 years. Is it wrong to date again?

November 29, 2018 11:59am CST
This is an interesting question my husband and i were discussing several days ago. Think of this scenerio: Your husband/wife has been in a coma for 10 years. Do you allow yourself to become romantically available again, or do you honor til death do us part? Do you stay devoted to them, knowing that your youth slips away, and are not even sure if they will ever wake up again? Is it wrong to move on emotionally, knowing that you may never be able to be with your spouse the same way ever again? Do you figure you might as well wait forever since you have already waited so long already? What are your thoughts?
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@MALUSE (69373)
• Germany
29 Nov 18
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@Pamyuu (73)
6 Dec 18
I don't know. I don't even have a spouse yet
@amnabas (14038)
• Karachi, Pakistan
29 Nov 18
Well it's a difficult question can't figure out.
@Icydoll (36717)
• India
29 Nov 18
Welcome to mylot friend
@Moon24 (22396)
• Serbia
29 Nov 18
Welcome to Mylot.
• South Korea
1 Dec 18
Yes, maybe yes... sometimes you have to let go of the things you Love for her/him to be happy. Because I believe the center of Love is making each other happy... Sacrificing and waiting for 10 years and letting go in the end is not selfish...
@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
29 Nov 18
While welcoming to the wonderful site of Mylot I appreciate your intelligent discussion! I think that will depend on the traditions which you fololow, society in which you live and the mral values you have1 If you are winner facing all these difficulties then i would say you have done a proper thing!