peoples that never seems to clean their own mess

I have dropped hints to all of them what things they are not doing, by putting carrier bags on the handles of their bedroom doors, to put their rubbish in that they have dropped all over their bedroom floors, that did not work, as they still never done it, I also told them what the carrier bags were for.

@Raj7779 oh? they were that insensitive?

I see all of them making the mess and none of them tidy any of it up.A few years ago I use to be well enough to work, as well as come home and do all the house work, now I am not well enough to even attempt to do any of it, not unless I want to end up having bed rest for over a week. It makes me so angry as it is all the things that they leave laying around and no respect for the things that they have or have used.

@Raj7779 It’s really hard in our side when sometimes some family members did not even see our hard work and wil not cooperate. It really make us feel sick if our place is messy. Maybe you can approach them nicely to help you with this matter. Just continue doing things that makes you feel happy and do not force yourself to do things you don’t like. Cheer up and be happy. Remember, life is too short to get mad.

It do only take a few minuites to put things away that they have got out, but they still will not do it. I hate seeing the house get in such a mess and knowing that I am not well enough to do it like a few years ago really do not make me feel any better. I see them doing all the things that they want to do all the time and make all the mess and that makes me angrier than ever. Can not think why I feel so stressed out all the time. The last time I tried to tackle a small amount of the mess I ended up in bed on bed rest with my joints all swollen in agony for over a week and when I got up and saw the mess was all there again and more besides, well lets say I was not happy.

It seems like a constant mess, where they leave every thing dumped every where around the house and no matter how many times you tell them they carry on doing it.

I think that they just have no respect for any thing and no thoughts for other people in the house. I have a upstairs loo, so people get to see all the mess that they have made when they walk past their bedrooms. I hate them taking food or drink up stairs, as they never bring the cups and plates down, yet they can soon take them up stairs. They can not even change the loo roll when it is finished, crazes me.

I have a nice big mat right near my door, so that people can either wipe their feet or take their shoes off, seems that they do neither and I am getting so frustrated that they are making my floors look so dirty. I would not mind as much if they were to do it once in a while, but they do it every day, sometimes five or six times a day.

@Raj7779 I think that if they do it up to five or six times a day it is already over the limit. And I think you should warn them to take off their sandals or shoes if they visit your place