Please guys help me.your advice is valuable for some one

@syeow1 (5136)
India
December 2, 2018 4:09pm CST
Hi friends I have need of your support as most of people here belongs to christianity.I am living in Kashmir .where almost population is of muslims.but before few months a Christian family from out of my state come in my neighbour on rent.head of family is mason he have four kids .due to winters he is not going on work .even he is not able to pay rent.as Christmas is coming and I know he is not able to celebrate. One of my friend wants to help him but he is feeling afraid how I offer him help .may be he will take it as insult or feel guilty.i did not know a lot about life style of Christians as I met with some one from Christian community first time so please advice me....
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@stringer321 (5644)
• Kiryat Ata, Israel
3 Dec 18
This is an opportunity to get to know someone, he has a story to tell. Many of us have the same problem that is the cost of living. If you see him somewhere, looking for help, offer him some help, he will appreciate it. You will be able to start talking, see where he came from, what happened to him... Christmas is sure a day to celebrate, but, not the money and the food are the main goal, the love and friendliness among the people is the thing to celebrate, that's something universal for all of the holidays.
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@stringer321 (5644)
• Kiryat Ata, Israel
3 Dec 18
@syeow1 That is a problem if someone doesn't want to ask for help, he has his pride, he doesn't trust others and trusts only about himself. I also have problem asking for help from others, even though, I sometimes ask for help. Maybe he has some help from another resource ?
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syowi
@syeow1 (5136)
• India
3 Dec 18
@stringer321 God knows better.but I think he have really need of money..
syowi
@syeow1 (5136)
• India
3 Dec 18
Correct.but my friend afraids because he think if we ask him may be he get hurt...and feel guilty
DEBJANI BASAK
@debjani1 (7202)
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3 Dec 18
I think you can gift him a box of cake and a big star to hang. Or first of all try to be his friend and then know the rules of Christmas.
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syowi
@syeow1 (5136)
• India
3 Dec 18
Dear he have need of money and my friend wants to help him please check this post
DEBJANI BASAK
@debjani1 (7202)
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4 Dec 18
@syeow1 he can transfer some money to his account or help him to pay the rent silently.
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syowi
@syeow1 (5136)
• India
4 Dec 18
@debjani1 but from where he get his account no.
DianneN
@DianneN (247186)
• United States
3 Dec 18
This is the season of sharing and helping. I think they would feel honored.
syowi
@syeow1 (5136)
• India
4 Dec 18
Oh hope so.
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Valerie J. Routhieaux
@just4him (317249)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
3 Dec 18
Is he unable to work? The only thing you can do is offer. He shouldn't be insulted by it unless it's the culture he comes from. I know I wouldn't be insulted with an offer of help.
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Marsha
@MarshaMusselman (38865)
• Midland, Michigan
4 Dec 18
@syeow1 meaning he can only work on the nice months? It is the same for us washing windows. Although here in America it's a bit easier finding work to do during the winter months. You can ask if there's something you can do. Or u if he seems upset but your offer you can let him know if he changes his mind he can contact you. later
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syowi
@syeow1 (5136)
• India
4 Dec 18
@MarshaMusselman oh I will try.
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syowi
@syeow1 (5136)
• India
3 Dec 18
He is Mason and due to winters he he not doing his work.
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Nevena Zivkovic
@Nevena83 (65277)
• Serbia
3 Dec 18
If you come honestly, you will not insult him.
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syowi
@syeow1 (5136)
• India
4 Dec 18
That is true .will try
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