Shaming the Poor

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Yesterday I got bashed on an online mom's group because I mentioned that I show my kids pictures of and share stories about poor people in other countries. I want my children to understand that there are people in the world that don't get three meals a day. People that sleep in dirt huts with leaky roofs. Kids that have to walk miles every day just to get a bucket of dirty water. I want my kids to be grateful for what they have and to pray for those that don't have as much. And not only to pray for them, but to help financially, if possible. And yet, when I made this "big reveal" I was told I was "shaming" poor people. Really? Am I just supposed to ignore the fact that there are people in the world that struggle? Should I raise my children to ignore the needs of others and only focus on themselves? What about the kids that want to help and sell lemonade, etc. so they can send money so those less fortunate can buy food? What about organizations like World Vision (through which we support a child) or Gospel for Asia that uses donations to help mothers find jobs, send goats and chickens to families so they can support themselves, and dig wells so children in villages don't have to walk hours for bad water? Are they shaming these people as well? I'm not pointing a finger and laughing at people trapped in these scenarios. I'm not telling my kids they're better than these other people. We respectfully talk about, pray for, and financially help those in need. Is that a bad thing? Would you consider it shaming to tell your children to be thankful for what they have because some folks don't have it as easy? Am I missing something here??