Financial Cheating

@proseprity68 In my country, divorce is not an option though. And since we are mostly Catholics, we believe that what God has made one should not be separated by any law - so really, people should work out their issues with their spouse unless violence in involved.

Things just show up after being with the person continuously. We all know that during the courtship stages best feet is shown, not just the best foot. The bad, the ugly and stinky just gets out of the closet, not just the skeletons by the way and it's just too late to get out of that supposed to be relationship. But then again, that's why there's such a thing as the word, divorce, after all the hurts and pains and giving chances, being miserable has to stop.

My name is included in a bank account where he even made me sign it (is that a good or bad thing?). Never did he tell me that I can withdraw from that account whenever I am a little bit short with cash. I feel like he included my name for formality but not reality. Your wife is luck that you are transparent. By the way, my husband bought a fitbit and the only way I learned about that was when after almost a month has has been asking me if there was a package for him and my simple and honest answer was, there was none. Later on, a neighbor came by and handed us a small box and he said, I believe this is yours guys. My husband saw it and of course he thank our neighbor. That was when he told me that he bought fitbit watch. I know that is his hard earned money, but I wish he could be a little bit more transparent, perhaps that would make me feel that I am truly his wife. I don't know if i'm making sense here.

It's just probabaly a matter of transparency on the person spending the hard earned money. Yes, I do agree with what you said, the other person doesn't have any business but the other person also ahs the right to know where the money is going to.