what would you do

@havagu92 (100)
Israel
December 18, 2018 12:43am CST
if in your group of friend, one of them is doing things you see as mistakes and you trying to tell them but they just shut away and get distance from the group? would love an advice.. you can also ask questions. feel free to share your thoughts.
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9 responses
@Sreekala (34312)
• India
18 Dec 18
It depends on the friendship.If I have that much liberty then I will tell it directly.
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@havagu92 (100)
• Israel
18 Dec 18
i talk to her all the time.. she is in a hard time and cant see that shes hurting herself..
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@Sreekala (34312)
• India
19 Dec 18
@havagu92 At times, it is difficult to make people to understand the good side.
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@havagu92 (100)
• Israel
23 Dec 18
@Sreekala yes..
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@Nevena83 (65277)
• Serbia
18 Dec 18
I think you need to give him time to think.
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@Nevena83 (65277)
• Serbia
23 Dec 18
@havagu92 Will, just believe it.
@havagu92 (100)
• Israel
23 Dec 18
tnx. maybe you're right. hope time will do good
@maezee (41988)
• United States
18 Dec 18
Show that you are about them. And hopefully they will listen. But sometimes you have to let your friends make those mistakes and learn the hard way.
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@redurnet (1798)
• United Kingdom
18 Dec 18
It's difficult to answer without knowing more. However, sometimes you can try telling a person something and they just won't listen.
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• Cuddalore, India
18 Dec 18
I can say straightly to my friend without any hesitation.
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@Moon24 (22396)
• Serbia
18 Dec 18
I dont know.
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@DocAndersen (54402)
• United States
18 Dec 18
I know that as a friend there are limits to what can and cannot be done. As a parent, you can simply step in and tell your child no, but as a friend sometimes you have to let people make mistakes. The best friend is the one that is there when things fall apart and helps put them back together.
@havagu92 (100)
• Israel
18 Dec 18
yeh youre right.. its really hard to let her do those mistakes.. but sometimes there's nothing i can do about it
@leny34 (8506)
• Sidoarjo, Indonesia
18 Dec 18
I think in groups we have to be able to work together
@nawala123 (20871)
• Indonesia
18 Dec 18
let him go
@nawala123 (20871)
• Indonesia
19 Dec 18
@havagu92 Such toxic friend is no use to be around him
@havagu92 (100)
• Israel
18 Dec 18
really? even if he is rally important for you? not so easy to let go..
@havagu92 (100)
• Israel
23 Dec 18
@nawala123 but she's not toxic! she is a good friend. she just can't see that she's hurting herself.. I hope she will see it soon.