mylot is a happy place

We do not see that here any more

By Always smiling

@allknowing (142690)

India

December 28, 2018 8:55pm CST

In the old myLot there used to be a situation where some would gang up and ridicule a user if they found something to ridicule about. They got some sadistic joy in doing that Happy that this is not seen here. Or could it be that I have learnt to give it a blind eye?

. Either way I am happy to be here. What's your take?

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@LadyDuck (472506)

• Switzerland

29 Dec 18

I am glad that this does not happen anymore and it's even against the guideline, so we can report those who should enjoy doing this.

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@allknowing (142690)

• India

29 Dec 18

Reporting used to be ignored sometimes

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@allknowing (142690)

• India

30 Dec 18

@LadyDuck I have noticed Admin has reasons to ignore even if messages are sent and they do not have to tell us why.

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@LadyDuck (472506)

• Switzerland

30 Dec 18

@allknowing If reporting is ignored, sending a PM sometimes gets better results.

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@aureliah (24334)

• Kenya

29 Dec 18

That would be so sad now and if that happened to me, i guess I would not stick around

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@shaggin (74039)

• United States

29 Dec 18

@aureliah that just allows them to win and ruins a good site.

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@allknowing (142690)

• India

30 Dec 18

@shaggin But in the new myLot we have a weapon. We can delete their posts. Such peace.

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@allknowing (142690)

• India

29 Dec 18

Not much of that is seen here now

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@ridingbet (66854)

• Philippines

29 Dec 18

that could be a form of bullying.

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@allknowing (142690)

• India

29 Dec 18

It was kind of bullying

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@shubhu3 (36463)

• New Delhi, India

29 Dec 18

It is good here. I don't know about old mylot scenario.

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@allknowing (142690)

• India

29 Dec 18

You do not have to know

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@shubhu3 (36463)

• New Delhi, India

29 Dec 18

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@responsiveme (22926)

• India

29 Dec 18

I hate ridicule..Live and let live

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@allknowing (142690)

• India

29 Dec 18

That is called art of living

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Nevena Zivkovic

@Nevena83 (65277)

• Serbia

29 Dec 18

I'm not here long and I'm glad I did not see anything like that.

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@allknowing (142690)

• India

29 Dec 18

It has reduced a great deal

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@allknowing (142690)

• India

29 Dec 18

@Nevena83 There is an easy way. Just block or delete their posts.

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Nevena Zivkovic

@Nevena83 (65277)

• Serbia

29 Dec 18

@allknowing That's good. I do not know how to handle such behavior.

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@shaggin (74039)

• United States

29 Dec 18

I have rarely even noticed it here but I have seen it a few times. I will stand up for those who are being picked on. It really bothers me anywhere I see it happening online and off.

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@shaggin (74039)

• United States

30 Dec 18

@allknowing I have seen people be rude and it bugs me even though that isnt against the rules here

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@allknowing (142690)

• India

29 Dec 18

These days it is not happening here. What is hated most is when they gang up

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@allknowing (142690)

• India

30 Dec 18

@shaggin That is where one suffers. No violation but yet hurtful But now we can delete such posts.

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@jujunme (2501)

• United States

30 Dec 18

I agree it's much nicer here than it used to be

and how about the star rating system? and the trolls that would gang up on others? just to lower their rating i really hated that

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@allknowing (142690)

• India

30 Dec 18

It was torture all the way. I have suffered it OK if you want to disagree do it as an individual but ganging up was real torture. I saw it happening here when two ganged up. I deleted those posts. We have that facility now

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@jstory07 (142644)

• Roseburg, Oregon

29 Dec 18

I am glad that is not happening anymore.

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@allknowing (142690)

• India

29 Dec 18

Most who indulged in such activities are not to be seen

@sofssu (23662)

•

30 Dec 18

I hate such gang behavior.. I haven't seen it here in all the time I have been here.

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@allknowing (142690)

• India

30 Dec 18

It was horrible.

@valmnz (17097)

• New Zealand

30 Dec 18

That is terrible to think that happened. I couldn't belong to a site like that. I love the friendliness here on myLot. That is why I stay.

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@allknowing (142690)

• India

30 Dec 18

Lucky you did not experience nor see what others experienced.

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@valmnz (17097)

• New Zealand

30 Dec 18

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@JudyEv (348961)

• Rockingham, Australia

29 Dec 18

This is my main complaint about Facebook. People seem to get a set on someone and put up some really vicious comments.

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@allknowing (142690)

• India

29 Dec 18

Ganging up is what I hate

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@allknowing (142690)

• India

2 Jan 19

@JudyEv It indeed is I am trying to locate some old discussions to prove my point(lol)

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@JudyEv (348961)

• Rockingham, Australia

2 Jan 19

@allknowing It is just bullying. You can't call it anything else.

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@dya80dya (36951)

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29 Dec 18

There are some people who do this, but not many.

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@allknowing (142690)

• India

29 Dec 18

I now know how to handle it

@porwest (97850)

• United States

29 Dec 18

If it happens it is VERY rare. I have seen it happen a couple of times. But like I said, it's pretty rare. Ridicule still happens, but not the sadistic variety. Some ridicule is warranted.